I've found that increasing my tonality and better body language helps A LOT. At the same time, it feels sales-y, more robotic, and less authentic.

KittyJerky · 2020-02-02T22:02:42+00:00

Think of it like brushing your teeth with your opposite hand. At first it feels clunky, weird, out of place, but the more you use it the more normal it feels and the better you get at it. Just keep doing what you’re doing👍🏼

getyourlifeplease · 2020-02-03T10:00:59+00:00

What really sounds robotic is when someones tone of voice is flat...like no emotion, no excitement, they just sound like a robot talking to you. Not saying you have to go to the opposite size and be all sale pitch and overly excited...but SOMETHING has to catch her attention.

sogayking2020 · 2020-02-02T23:46:45+00:00

of course it will help. people judge you before you say a word, so it starts you off on the right foot

1stPersoninfields · 2020-02-03T17:59:43+00:00

I can't bring myself to. I've tried it and taken advice that it is the correct method. But I can't do it on a consistent basis because it feels too fake.

I would rather be myself rather than suppressing myself trying to enact some PUA nonsense. It stops you have developing a true connection when you use PUA techniques.

FairAnalyst · 2020-02-03T20:45:37+00:00

If you do anything long enough - it becomes the authentic you. Kind of like learning any sport.

The thing about PU is this emphasis on being authentic - that comes AFTER you've learned as many skills as you can. And AFTER you've done your best at learning them. And AFTER you've gotten decent success. Not before.

Line this up with how someone learns a martial art. They're trained in how to hold their fist and strike. It feels weird as fuck. But its the move that works better than some skinny kid whose never been in a fight before trying to punch the way he feels because its his 'authentic way'.

Basically all skills (including PU) is learned the same way - you learn how to do it the right way - then you make it your way.

Title	I've found that increasing my tonality and better body language helps A LOT. At the same time, it feels sales-y, more robotic, and less authentic.
Author	Weeeyerd
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	February 2, 2020 9:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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