I've had it.

TheBadBoyManBoy · 2015-05-29T05:33:47+00:00

Enjoy yourself. Don't be self conscious and be loud with your emotions.

My best move is to pull a girl onto my beer pong team. When you make a shot give them a high five. Taunt the other team in a fun way. You will build an energy and people will start to notice you. If you keep winning then you become the king of the party. Don't forget to dance your ass off too. Girls will instantly flock to you side of the table.

TacticalBouncyCastle · 2015-05-29T09:41:38+00:00

If I could go back and talk to my high school self: Forget this stuff until you can approach a lot of girls on an almost daily basis. Either when you can go to lots of house parties in college, or when you can go to bars and clubs. Don't read another word of pickup material until you can practice a lot.

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-05-29T13:11:23+00:00

Work on your looks. No matter where they're at now. Hit the gym, get your fashion some new life, new haircut maybe, etc.

Go to the nearest city. Without a phone (or just with it off). Explore. Look at new stores, try new food, go to a museum, see a movie. Chill in a Park and just people/nature watch.

While out in days like that, talk to people. Just small talk about the shit at hand. Ask what shirt looks good on you. Mention how weird the movie was to someone walking out with you. Just get used to casually chatting with people everywhere.

If there's a girl in your age group while out, go for it.

Squand · 2015-05-29T14:21:29+00:00

Do you play any sports? If not, what are your main hobbies?

RAINY_BITCHES · 2015-05-30T03:55:17+00:00

This might sound quite blunt and harsh, but look at yourself, then look at the guys who take the girls 'away from you'. Understand the difference and better yourself. Work harder perhaps by going to the gym, expand your vocabulary and make yourself more interesting. The main reason girls usually lose INTEREST, is because you're not INTERESTing. Supply and demand basically, girls want to be entertained, and those lads entertain them, even if they are dicks or whatever.

AwfulK · 2015-05-29T14:47:16+00:00

Dude, I just graduated college. I know you want advice for right now and I'm sure you've already heard this a lot but trust me, a year from now none of this stuff will matter. You'll stay in contact with the kids from high school that do. Focus on doing well in school, getting into a good university and focus on yourself first and foremost. Join a gym this summer and start lifting if you don't already. Look over your wardrobe and get some new (preppy) clothes. Make sure you look into universities with greek life and at least consider joining.

Title	I've had it.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	May 29, 2015 4:11 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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