Hi Seddit,

I'm usually a lurker but I tought I'd share my story as I recognise my old self in a lot of people in here in the way people perceive themselves.

Go back 5 years when I was 19-20 years old and I was a real AFC. Kept jumping from One-itis to another, was completly out of shape (5'8, 200 lbs), I tought being done with high school would solve all my problems (LOL), socially akward, no style what so ever and I tought I was ugly as sin and the best I could ever get was someone who was as ugly as me. You get the point.

Once I got into college, decided to take things into my own hands and went into an exchange program in order to travel. Lived 6 months in Europe and lost 35 lbs while traveling all around the place. Came back with the craziest stories and a lot more confidence. My new self was still a lot Beta though and kept jumping through loop but I managed to get my first GF and to lose my V card at 21 years old! First GF turned into a LTR but boy did I change in the last 4 years (GF can take a lot of credit in this).

Fast forward to today, my Ex-GF dumped about 2 months ago. Cried like a little bitch for the first month then realised I had to get back on my feet. So here I am, newly single at 25, with tons of life experiences, confidence, good hairstyle, well dressed, good job, good car, training 5 days a week and in the best shape of my life. I toughts I'd give the POF equivalent and Tinder a shot as it had worked in the past for my last girlfriend...

Completly different results! Within 2 weeks, I managed to get over 10 numbers and dates with 6 different girls (All HB7+) so I wondered WTF had changed compared to the last time I was single...well everything has changed and I never realised it until now.

So where am I heading with all this story? Bragging that I can now pickup? No, I just want people to fucking do it. Stop reading all the theories online and just do something with your life and the rest will happen by itself. Go see a hair dresser and ask her to do whatever she thinks fits you best. Go hit the gym and stop eating crap, travel by yourself and learn that you can be as awesome as you want to be! Stop waiting for things to just change and most importantly...stop giving a fuck of what other people think. Force change in your life and the seduction part will become natural after a while. Seddit is about helping each other to become bettter with womans but the base will always stay the same...it always comes back to you and only you.