Mr and I have been together almost 20 years. I can report that as a wife, I feel most valued when he puts me first. Not in a cliché, diva manner, in a way that keeps our flames burning for each other. Ladies like to feel valued by being seen and heard. Prevent weeds from penetrating by having a healthy lawn. Add some lime in the spring and fall and throw on some fert! flowers and small thoughtful gift like coffees and snacks. This truly seduces a woman's heart 💚