Let a girl know i'm interested

BuyerOfCoins · 2015-07-05T19:00:22+00:00

We've been hanging out just us two lately,been friends for a couple of months but i want to let her know i'm really interested in her without saying it directly. Any tips ?

after a short laugh

No

'I think you're really cute and want to go have a drink with you sometime'

chiliehead · 2015-07-05T19:20:46+00:00

If you escalate right you don´t have to say "date" to make clear a meetup is not just a "let´s be friends" thing. Touch/Kino, sexual frame all that. And asking her out implies interest. You have to polarize for results.

TheEyesHaveEyes · 2015-07-05T23:19:23+00:00

While I'm not the best at kino right off the bat, making direct eye contact with a smile on your face does wonders. There was a post on here a while ago that described this technique as "trying to look at your reflection in her eyes." Not just looking at them, but staring into the depths of her soul. A well placed, unexpected wink could also be useful. Just flirt, thats the only way to tell her without spelling it out.

Scumbag30 · 2015-07-05T23:56:38+00:00

Well I had exactly this situation. Friend of mine kept engineering ways of us spending time together. I knew she wasn't going to make the first move so in the end I was just sat on a park bench with my arm around her, stroking her and I said "I feel there's a lot of sexual tension between us."

I was kissing her shortly after.

London80 · 2015-07-06T00:18:41+00:00

Hello, question

Has there been much physical interaction between the two of you? Do you touch her much, if not you need to start because if you dont want to verbally state your interest you are going to have to do it with touch, body language and eye contact

If you are nervous about physical contact start small and build up, flirt a little be playful, dont take yourself or this girl too seriously just try and enjoy

and there is nothing wrong with stating your intention, do you want to end up as the weak guy that left it too long to make a move? Im guessing not so create situations or keep and eye open for situations where you can use touch to create more chemistry between you

You don't need to smile if its not natural, or over do it with the compliments, like a puppy dog seeking approval, give yourself some credit if you believe that you can show this girl a good time then believe in yourself, this should be mutually beneficial for you both, don't leave it too long and dont make any panic moves or get too deep about it, its on or its not simple as, worse can happen is you will improve from experience

sillymallard · 2015-07-07T07:23:32+00:00

If you've been hanging out, just the two of you, then physically escalate.

Title	Let a girl know i'm interested
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Date	July 5, 2015 6:56 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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