I know. I know. I shouldn't do anything with this and just move on. But, I also know that I am going to do something whether it's a good idea or not, so I thought I'd try to get some advice first.

I'll also admit that there is an aspect to this post that is "help me with this one girl", but let's try to use my situation as an example and make it mostly about long distance seduction in general. I did a field report describing my last meeting with this girl. But, the basic situation is not that unique. This isn't an online relationship or anything, rather someone I met in real life who has now moved pretty far away (a 2 hour flight). This is someone I'm looking to have a serious relationship with, otherwise I wouldn't bother. She is definitely attracted to me, but I'm not sure if she sees me as a potential romantic interest or not.

As I see it the main problem with long distance seduction is that the only opportunities for communication are electronic, and we all know that it's next to impossible to build attraction that way. But, what I am thinking is more how to maintain the level of attraction and increase curiosity/interest for the purpose of arranging real life meetings.

So far, I've done a pretty decent job of following the "online rules" about not initiating contact more than she does and not giving away too much information and keeping things short. (Probably weaker on the last two points... some of which is just due to the fact that the way women communicate with each is different that how men and women do, more intimate mainly, and some of which is my fucking up.

In my situation, I really like this girl but friend-zoned her a while back (a calculated move to do it before she did it to me). When we met again recently (see the field report for details) there was definitely attraction still there. At this point, I really want her to un-friendzone her. But, I don't like the idea of trying to show how I feel electronically. The best out of those options is the telephone I think, but it's far from ideal. I don't really want to just call her up and tell her I like her as more than a friend, but I'm very close to doing that because I don't see another option. I think she needs to know something because other people are pursuing her, and if she still thinks she's in my friendzone, I have no chance at all.

So, any suggestions on how to communicate one's feelings and attraction in this type of situation? What's the least worst way? I know my chances are slim to none, but (like i said) I know myself and I'm going to do something (unless seddit talks me out of it).