Looking for a guide on how to escalate through Snapchat

Atuli · 2016-09-24T07:24:10+00:00

Start fun then go sexual

johnny_77 · 2016-09-24T18:38:33+00:00

Oh boy, welcome to class son. Snapchat is an amazing tool, especially if you've never met in person and are chatting it up via Tinder or some other online site.

First off, you can put out an image of exactly who you are (or who you'd like to be, fake it til' you make it, if "who you are" is pizza and Jack Daniels by yourself at 3am, maybe don't go that far) without coming on too strong. Story mode is your go to here. If she's considering a date at all (and if you have met in person, which is what it sounds like, or met briefly, and she's still hitting you up on snapchat, beyond one-word brushoffs, then she is), believe me, she will be checking your story, and, the nice part is, you can see if she has. All that cool stuff you like to do? Document it and put it up on that story.

Now, as far as escalating sexually, let her guide how far this goes. You don't want to keep it platonic, but each woman is different. I've had gals send me nudes right away unprompted, but I have, and will never, send the first nude. Women are interesting, and, like everything, this is generally speaking (but general is your friend here, as you don't really know this girl), they don't like getting nudes from guys they haven't fucked or haven't requested any from. You need to excite them mentally first. Guys are ok with receiving a nice picture of some breasts without any attention to the lighting, ambiance, etc, but, while women are sexual creatures, they like to imagine stuff more. Even with women I've been with, it's better to send a snap of you looking good where you can barely see the base of your penis, than to send one full-frontal, makes them want more. And there have been times where a woman has said: "I want a full pic of your rock-hard cock", but let them get into that.

How I typically escalate is start out funny, get one of those weird filters going (go over the top, like the one with mascara) and say something like: "How's this bring out my eyes?" If she's feeling it she'll usually respond like: "Oh my god, they're gorgeous." Then you kind of take it from there, could go with something like: "now that I'm thinking about it, you actually have amazingly deep eyes." I mean there's no script, but snapchat can be a great asset.

MrLestat · 2016-09-24T09:34:04+00:00

Make it a tease, so that in order to get fulfilment she has to come and see you in person. Something like showing you doing and enjoying something she likes, with comments on how it would be nice to try that with her or something

My3centsItsWorthMore · 2016-09-24T10:45:32+00:00

I don't know the what the vibe so take all this advice with a grain of salt, but you could try using the messaging side of snapchat and try get a date. If you wanted to try integrate the medium a bit more you could send her a picture of you somewhere and write would you like to join me next time. Honestly we all like to play safe and try build rapport and transition organically, but sometimes you just got to be bold. However if you are more so looking for a sexual partner/nudes over dating maybe you could send her something with a bit of humour but sexual tones, like something like you doing something to your nipple. But yea whatever you decide to go with, just make sure your stepping it up and pushing the boundries, without going full dic pic.

Xayv · 2016-09-24T10:45:56+00:00

hmm..I've never seen kickass snapchat tips. I guess it would be similar to escalating with like text/messenger pics though + the added creativity of the snapchat editor which is good for showing some humor. There's probably tons of great guides on text escalation or text game maybe you can find some.

Woujo · 2016-09-24T07:19:50+00:00

but my only means of communication/ organization with her are through Snapchat and I've gotta take the initiative.

WHY? You can't see her in real life?

Title	Looking for a guide on how to escalate through Snapchat
Author	JohnnyBGucci
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	September 24, 2016 6:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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