Looks and leagues

IronManSeduction · 2016-08-11T17:21:02+00:00

Hi duckyquack1,

In my experience, do not burden yourself with concepts like leagues.

I've dated women who were very attractive. I've also been blown out by less attractive women.

I've found no real correlation. If a woman is attracted to you, she'll be attracted to you. She's not going to measure your looks against others or against her own, just to see if you're good enough.

thecompanymangone · 2016-08-11T19:12:00+00:00

...there are no women out of your league...the only women out of your league are the ones YOU put on a pedestal. The real question you should be asking yourself: How do I STOP putting women I find highly desirable on a pedestal?...

eviiil · 2016-08-11T19:46:58+00:00

High valued women only sleep with high value men.

The thing is, a man's value is only maybe, 30-35% in his aesthetic. The rest is in his character, personality, how he carries himself through the world and around women.

So what determines what league a man is in isn't just his looks, but the total package so to speak.. if he's a solid guy.

jimmyelgent · 2016-08-12T08:24:50+00:00

With looks theory, I'm always slightly conflicted.

On the downside, the very good looking people I know have more sex than anyone I know, with the hottest girls, and with the smallest amount of 'effort'. (they don't tend to approach, they get approached). They don't know 'game'. Any 'game' they have is just natural confidence as a result of being given compliments on their appearance since they were children.

However, I concede that I also know one or two people who are about as ugly as me, yet they do very well with girls, often punching well above their weight in terms of looks. They have to work a lot harder and take lots and lots of rejections, but they get the job done.

I'd guess looks are very important in college (as they are in life), but maybe even more so, as i suppose people tend to be even more superficial when they are younger. I guess when you start hitting your 40's and stuff, looks matter a lot less to girls

Tiapaa · 2016-08-11T14:37:23+00:00

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Title	Looks and leagues
Author	duckyquack1
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	August 11, 2016 2:12 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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