Losing virginity

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Boosteddreamer · 2024-04-17T17:30:17+00:00

Don’t worry about being inexperienced, just don’t make a big deal about being a virgin and enjoy things. No matter how much you read online your still going to me nervous and feel like you don’t know what your doing when the time comes.

GreedyCartoonist8002 · 2024-04-17T19:24:06+00:00

I feel bad cause you've gotten 0 advice lol.

You the man, be vocal. Feel free to have her change up positions if it's not hitting the spot or if she's not responding after a minute or two. (Try to pay attention to her. Her moaning, her position, her body language.)

For positions like doggy style, your power comes from your legs, make sure you have friction on the floor. (Remove socks)

Foreplay foreplay foreplay. Start with a little kissing and try to get her in the mood, don't try to just get there and rail it in there.

Take it easy, don't force it. If there's alot of resistance, just slowly go back and forth to "warm her up".

Outside of that, it's all just communication. Don't be a fool wrap your tool.

Speedsloth123 · 2024-04-17T19:43:46+00:00

Some tips I wish I knew my first time:

Biggest thing: focus on the sex. Not the bs in your head. There’s no right way to do it, ur not making a fool of yourself. I had so much bad sex at the beginning cuz I’d just be totally in my head and not even enjoy it. Also helps me personally to remind myself that I can trust her.

Communicate a lot - tell her how good shit feels, ask her questions “do u like it when I touch your pussy like that” etc. if you say it in an explicit way like that it’s pretty hot too. Since you’re inexperienced, u can even ask her to show u/tell u what she likes. It will be a helluva lot less awkward than fumbling around, and that way you’ll actually get better.

Don’t be afraid to switch positions

Build up slowly and tease her with foreplay. She will literally beg u to fuck her and that’s how u know she’s ready lol.

Clits are rly sensitive at the beginning, touch over her underwear or rly softly on and around the clit slowly get more intense if she responds to it.

Use a fking condom, I got an sti my first time like an idiot.

If u come rly quick or whatever who cares, u can just cuddle for a sec and play with her pussy until ur hard again. The other day I forgot a condom with a hookup, but we still hooked up for like 4 hours just alternating between eating each other out, jacking each other off, and cuddling

Advanced-Muscle-4351 · 2024-04-17T18:30:29+00:00

bro just chill. if the girl is not a virgin she'll know what to do with you. be opened about new stuff and polite. if possible, ask her what she likes to do so that you ll both feel good abt it.

most likely she ll just jump over you or vice-versa and then some doggy and then, voila! ur not a virgin anymore...

Available_Bass9725 · 2024-04-17T17:42:22+00:00

Sex is the ultimate masculine experience especially if done with a beautiful girl. You cannot by definition look stupid after sex. You can look stupid if sex doesn't happen or you don't finish it but never if you go through with it. Like it isn't possible. You had sex with a hot girl. That's a notch on your bed.

No-Version5647 · 2024-04-17T17:37:25+00:00

I wish you all the luck, but years from now there's higher chances of you losing your v card to a hookup.
Try find someone who you have emotional comfort with, the sex will feel infinitely better, but thats me.

Any way, good luck and do not overthink.

Love_JWZ · 2024-04-17T20:53:57+00:00

your dick might get soft. aint nothing to stress about. just let your hands pleasure her some, kiss her a bit and you'll be all stiff again.

the basics will come naturaly. it's instinctive.

uncreativeusername31 · 2024-04-17T18:49:47+00:00

I actually just lost my v card at 24 a year ago to a girl on hinge.

My goal wasn’t to lose it. It was to practice dating and if it happens it happens and it happened. I told her. She had a few questions about why I waited but it wasn’t awkward. Just be chill. Also you are filming a porno don’t do what you see in porn. Do the easy novice moves lol

WhySoShitAtLife · 2024-04-17T20:01:42+00:00

pull your foreskin all the way back, lol.

UmbreonNo · 2024-04-17T18:18:21+00:00

I've heard some people say it's good to beat your meat some hours before so you can last a little more but I have no clue on that. As the other guy said, just don't overthink it too much, she is just going to do her everyday job

DependentAd1504 · 2024-04-17T19:44:56+00:00

Well because of that nervousness and overly heartbeating you'll cum really very very soon... So before going for the deed ...try to get comfortable around her .. it's okay cum once or twice before you go for the intercourse... Touch each other if you cum take a break and try the oral and you cum again take a break...and then you can be confident about the intercourse... You'll and she'll love...

Title	Losing virginity
Author	caprisun64
Upvotes	22
Comments	28
Date	April 17, 2024 5:03 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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