Ltr game with no social circle?

powerroots99 · 2017-06-27T20:22:02+00:00

You're not a loser if your circle of friends is small. I would flip the question asking if she has anything you guys can attend, and start making couple friends at gatherings. You could try church events, you can try a local farmers market, or even chatting people up at bars. Good luck man!

ImJustSo · 2017-06-27T20:59:10+00:00

So I've been with a woman about 14 years, I have a little experience with this. First of all, you've got to be a social guy. You chat with everyone you get a chance to chat with. You smile and say hello to everyone. You make conversation with servers, bartenders, doormen, cashiers, help desk ladies, school teachers, professors, old people, everybody. You accept as many invitations to things as you can and you graciously accept. Today an old guy gave me 6 tickets to a college baseball team, two games for 3 people.

My girl says she would like to go Friday, so we'll go Friday. Tomorrow I'll going to try to make a friend by givingaway Thursday's tickets!

I'll also ask another woman to the game Friday (because we go on dates with other women, which might not be your thing) and see if we can get some company for us!

Jacob_961 · 2017-06-28T08:53:54+00:00

Social circle is not the real problem. The relationship is getting boring. Don't address the logical issues. Address the emotional ones. Deep down you know what she wants and it is a confident guy who will look past the bullshit chatter and engage her core. The raw emotional core and if you can do it, you don't need to do anything else. She would live with you in a sardine can.

motorku531 · 2017-06-27T21:27:03+00:00

Fuck parties fuck social gatherings. You don't fucking need this shit. I'm not sure about you, but I don't give a fuck about those things.

Let me ask you this- do you really want to attend a party where you will just drunk yourself to blackout, and even if you end up fucking someone, you won't remember shit. Do you want that? If yes then cool, go do that. Otherwise fuck your girl (literally) and do shit you truly enjoy

Mobiiz · 2017-06-27T20:38:42+00:00

You deal with it by doing fun stuff. You don't need a big group of friends to have fun - at least I don't... I moved states two years ago and I have a small group of acquaintances here but only one real friend. My brother.

So if my girlfriend wants to do something then me and her go out and do something in nature, Kayak, go to state parks, go explore a new part of the city, stuff like that.

If she wants you to be a party animal then she's probably not LTR material.

with_more_feeling · 2017-06-28T01:10:56+00:00

Look up bar crawls on Facebook or meetup.

Better yet show that you've got social skills and just befriend randos at bars.

This is HUGE social proof for her. And it's doubly easy bc you've already got a girl with you... You're JUST there to have fun.

Now: do you actually know how to lead social interactions and HELP people have fun.

recipricating · 2017-06-28T07:49:49+00:00

i think to be on an adventure that she can come along with you is easy if your cool and relaxed with putting yourself out there. really, if you know what you're into, there are so many events where there are nothing but people, of all types and sizes, that are totally into the same thing. its easy to find someone with a similar interest, and its easy to talk about it, and learn. I think its crazy how going to town on a problem like this can really open some interesting experiences. its the only way to learn about yourself, feel me?

~recipricrating

n627 · 2017-06-27T22:39:15+00:00

To answer your last question, yes I had an exact same situation. I have no resolution to that. And I don't worry about it because we broke up two months ago. Good luck though

Title	Ltr game with no social circle?
Author	pspman354
Upvotes	23
Comments	13
Date	June 27, 2017 7:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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