This is a response to the companion OP. I will agree to disagree with it.

I will lay out my trial and error process over the years and the iron laws that have emerged.

  1. NEVER EVER BE NEEDY OR SHOW WEAKNESS

You might be able to pull shit way into a relationship but it kills sexual attraction, generally. Women like to be the clingy, needy ones.

Whatever happens, stay positive and it is no big deal and smile and embrace the suck.

  1. INDIRECTLY SHOW OTHER WOMEN ARE INTERESTED NEVER DIRECTLY.

do not overtly talk to other women or be tone deaf about it. Ideally you want to be attractive enough to where other women are just kind of gravitating toward you and looking at you all the time. She's a woman, she knows the girl code. If that's not working then just have a few hot female friends and leave the details of your past with them ambiguous.

Always. Ambiguous.

  1. UNTIL YOU ARE HOOKING UP REGULARLY DONT REVEAL TOO MUCH ABOUT YOURSELF. FOCUS ON HER.

women will dq you over all kinds of stupid shit before they sleep with you that in reality they don't care about. Keep it light and fun until she's more invested. Then you can open up a bit.

  1. NEVER GO FULL DIRTBAG EVEN THOUGH YOU WILL GET LAID THE FASTEST. BUYER'S REMORSE IS REAL.

if you come on way too strong as a playboy/fuckboi/etc. You'll get laid but the chance of never hearing from them again spikes. Doesn't matter if the sex was great doesn't matter if you're a Greek God. If you can't paint the picture of even a possible future with you there won't be any.

  1. NEVER EVER LET HER KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HER.

controversial one but it's true. You need to be about one step below or above her interest level. The more she thinks you're in the bag the less interesting you are to her. I don't really like how true this one is but it can't be helped.

  1. ALWAYS MAKE SURE SHE ORGASMS.

should be basic. No matter what whenever you hook up with her she should come. First.

  1. BIN IMMEDIATELY

She's either a fuckbuddy, a fwb, or a potential gf.

Fb = see once or twice a month. Sex main event. Nothing else beyond light chat. You go there, hook up, roll out. Just pleasantries. Only text to hook up

Fwb = once a week. Sex still main event but other activities can happen but only after sex. Only text to "hangout."

Gf = see as much as you want and is advisable given the circumstance. Sex is not sole focus but still need to ensure that it happens often enough to satisfy you. Text as often as you want about whatever

^ 99% of situationship problems come from guys not binning women properly and treating a fwb like you'd treat a gf etc.

If you treat them like a fb they won't expect anything else and won't be confused.

  1. DON'T BOTHER WITH COLD APPROACH UNTIL AT LEAST A FEW WOMEN CHECK YOU OUT WHENEVER YOU GO OUT.

in 2021 you can't spam approach anymore. If women aren't at least checking out the merch, you probably aren't at the right level to cold approach.