Overall a fail night (drama) at the club, but reinforced some quick tidbits on social circle game.

  1. When you are intro'ed you don't need to open w/ an opener, you can go straight into a hook, etc. Was talking to a girl from this group of girls (I know two of them in that group of 5/6), after intro, went straight in w/ a neg to her low energy at that point, then went straight into a standard roleplay of I'm keeping the house and the dog, you get the kids and the car. Her energy immediately shot up and played along. Sadly this ended when I (I swear I have club ADD) started talking to another girl in the group that I wanted. Definitely could have #-closed and should have...total interaction time was about 10-15 min.

  2. Its OKAY to spend money in social circles. These aren't cold approaches. If you bounce a social circle to the bar or to a table if you got one, it is NOT a waste. During an cold approach if you dump money, you can end up with nothing, if she is not attracted and walks away. In a social circle, if you spend money on friends...you'll still have them as friends, downside you spent money, upside the social circle is more inclined to stick with you, worst case, you still have this social circle, and theres nothing better than other girls seeing girls buy you drinks at the club, and it also helps you bounce the group to a different location. Once they are used to following you around, you are...

  3. Leader of the group. Remember in the social circle, you automatically have a us vs the world mentality. When you are able to bounce the group well and basically dictate the flow of the group (remember you don't have to dictate the conversation, just the flow...if you don't like the subject change it), you are the leader of the group. However, this also means you have to protect the group. YOU are now the AMOG. YOU or other males in your group have to play interference...don't forget this and let others take the girls in your group after you got their buying temperature up.

  4. Be careful who you close in the group. You don't create drama w/in the group. If you already closed a girl before...unless theres NOTHING there, try not to close another girl in the same group if you still want this group to be a social circle...nothing is more ugly than drama.

Basically my night consisted of two social circles I was trying to juggle. Of course bit off more than I could chew and moderately failed at both.

SS#1: basically went in w/o asking the "how do you guys know each other". Ended up spending time on a girl who was a gf w/ a girl in the group... Not a complete fail, that I made more friends in that social circle (originally only knew two people in there).

SS#2: Already had K-closed 2 girls in that group (one was a TOTAL mistake, the other...Kryptonite). Pretty sure I now have a bad rep in that group >.<...spent most of the night talking to Kryptonite (These are girls that you break pickup rules for...NOT good to have...but its like a drug...hard to break...first is admitting you have a problem). Problem with this social circle is that it ties in with another bigger one that...I don't want to lose...so...caught between a rock and a hard place.

Drama: My "ex" saw me at the club...ended up spending the rest of the night with her...made out but...we both knew it wasn't going to pan out...basically walking down a deadend street.

Self criticism:

  1. Drink less
  2. Make it or break it w/ the Kryptonite
  3. Always remember to find out the relationships of people in the social groups.
  4. Less ADD in the club...close out the targets I actually open

Constructive criticism welcomed

tl;dr - tried to juggle 2 social circles and ran into ex at the club...overall fail

sorry about formating...