Alright, I need some outside perspective on this because my brain is spinning.

So, I’ve been hanging out with this girl. First night we go out, we spend the whole night together — there’s clear mental and emotional attraction. We hold hands, vibe’s strong. Next day, we meet again, and we kiss. Day after that, we meet again, things get a little more physical — kissing, touching, more closeness.

Then… boom. The day after, she says she regrets it. Says she’s religious, doesn’t want to lose me as a person, and wants to “stay friends.” I tell her I’m okay with that. Before leaving, she asks for “a last kiss.” I refuse. She keeps approaching me physically, I say no again. She ends up leaving.

We’re part of the same friend group, so we still see each other.

She sends me a text asking to go to the pool. I see it while working and don’t respond immediately. When I go to reply later, she’s deleted the message.

Next day, we see each other with the group, and afterwards she texts me “you looked sexy”… then deletes that message too.

Later, I sent her a message and deleted it too (just to fuck with her).

Then she calls me the next day, invites me to go swimming again. I agree. Afterward, I text her asking if she wants to go out. She says she’s going out with the group and that I should come. I go — but super late — and that’s the last update.

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I’m getting hit with mixed signals hard here. What’s going on? Is she conflicted, playing games, or just unsure of what she wants? Do I pull back or stay open to whatever this is? Thanks 🫶🏻