Movie dates?

yeehawwmoney · 2019-10-22T01:21:00+00:00

If it’s the first date, yeah I personally think they are pointless because you just sit there and can’t talk. If y’all know each other and y’all just genuinely wanna see the movie, that’s fine.

manonpoint_com · 2019-10-22T03:32:27+00:00

Definitely a bad first date. However, I think movie dates are generally underrated, as long as you plan them properly (so that they end early enough to grab a drink or do something after).

axe122 · 2019-10-22T03:48:56+00:00

Unless the movie date is her watching a movie at your place then don’t do a movie date until you’ve already slept with her. You can’t build a connection or any comfort with her, you really can’t seduce her in the theatre either. Instead go out take her to 2 different places on the second or 3rd date then invite her to watch a movie at your place (preferably make the date a fri or sat night so she doesn’t have to get up early the next day for work). Don’t let her sit wherever she wants or you’ll spend the whole movie tryna get her in your arms instead of spending the whole movie tryna get in her panties. When she walks in the room your gonna watch the movie in sit down first and tell “her to come here sit with me” she’s not going over there to not sit with you but she’s gonna be nervous so it’s your job to lead the interaction. This is where tons of guys screw up they try and be super nice and respectful but she’s there to makeout with and possibly have sex with you not to watch a movie lol girls like and want sex too.

RaptorMan333 · 2019-10-22T13:35:52+00:00

I hate them. Movie dates are suitable further into the relationship when you're comfortable just sitting there with each other, when you're both cool with splitting the bill, etc.

For an initial date, there's almost no time for actually talking/flirting, and movie dates in general carry this very bad connotation because every chump guy since the beginning of time has taken her to an awkward "dinner and a movie" and probably spend too much on her hoping to get in her pants. It also makes things awkward because a movie is like $15 these days and you'll feel pressured to pay for it which is too much for some girl you don't even know. A $5 beer isn't a big deal to buy for a girl that you're really vibing with after she's shown interest, but I'm not a fan of spending much of any money on a girl until you've hooked up.

Plus I'm a movie buff and actually want to watch the damn movie and not play footsie.

If we're talking about "Netflix and chill"...well then that's a different matter entirely.

goonerguy101 · 2019-10-22T18:57:28+00:00

I had a movie date as the first date a few years back. I didn’t get a second date, I think the first date should be about getting to know each other and you can’t do that in the cinema.

smoothmax · 2019-10-22T01:43:49+00:00

A movie can be a plus, IF afterwards you capitalize on the emotional spikes that happened in the movie. Examples:

Romantic movie in the Titanic genre. Afterwards clown around by offering your arm when you go down stairs or cross a road. Get down on bended knee and kiss her hand. Be courtly and funny.

A horror movie. You walk past a dark alley, pretend you saw something in the shadows, yell "Aaagh!" and clutch her like you're afraid. Then say sorry, sorry. Until 5 minutes later when you do it again. Never gets old.

Art movie. "Have to admit I didn't get that much. All I understand is, I should throw you in that garbage can RIGHT OVER THERE." Pick her up and pretend you're going to drop her in the trash.

Tragic movie: "It was so sad. So so sad. Hold me!" You grab her and when she holds you tight say really quietly, "... suckerrr ..."

Action movie. "Wow. When I see all those explosions and stuff I get emotionally ... erect. What about you?"

Kylemoa1 · 2019-10-22T02:07:42+00:00

Unless they specifically want to go on a movie date, don't. At least not on the first date and not if you don't have something planned after. There's an entire list of things to do aside from movies but i think the most important thing is having fun.

Title	Movie dates?
Author	obico
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Date	October 22, 2019 1:19 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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