Moving beyond the "hey" step

Ballislife1313 · 2024-10-22T12:11:38+00:00

Comment on a detail in her profile, that should get the ball rolling. Ask her questions about herself and after a few messages, when you feel there is mutual interest, you hit her with the "I'm not very good at texting but I would like to know you better, would you like to grab a drink or some coffee later?".

toastychief93 · 2024-10-22T13:50:36+00:00

So after you say "hey" and they don't respond, send another message that says this.. " if you think I have enough self respect to not message you a second time, well you're wrong. Please ruin my life" ... Gets a response 100%of the time

norwegiandoggo · 2024-10-22T08:26:32+00:00

What is your goal with these conversations? Think about it for a day and write down some answers.

Is it, to have fun chatting with strangers? Based on how you're texting - it doesn't seem like it. You don't seem to have any fun while texting.

Is it to get a date in real life? If so, it doesn't seem like it because you aren't asking them on dates. Or am I wrong?

Is it to get to know them? It doesn't seem like it, because generic questions just leads to getting to know someone superficially. Not really getting to know them properly.

Is your goal to bore yourself and the people you're chatting with? It seems like it. That's how you're texting

Round-Break9579 · 2024-10-22T18:59:51+00:00

Compliments on a specific feature of her or her style always help me. If there is nothing super specific just copliment her Hair, Eyes, Style and Vibe. Express your feelings: I love your eyes, the vibe you give is so comforting etc.

Hey alone is not a good starter.

Girls Tinder looks different than a guys Tinder, they get tons of matches, so be bold.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-10-22T08:45:02+00:00

Hi there.

MindsetsForDating · 2024-10-22T17:23:24+00:00

Is your end goal to have a date? If so, you want to avoid having a long conversation on the apps. You want to talk in person because that is how people connect. You want to have just a few easy back-and-forths. Ask this or that questions like, "Would you rather spend an evening having dinner on the beach or at a rooftop restaurant in a city?" After three or four of these, say something like "How about you and I text each other off of the app? It's easier than back and forth on here." Send her your number. The women who text you have a high level of interest in you. Set up a date with them.

If they would rather keep the conversation on the app, tell them that you'd like to set up a date to meet in person for drinks or a coffee.

I hope this helps. If you need any other advice, don't hesitate to reach out.

Small-Acanthaceae567 · 2024-10-22T10:28:13+00:00

I found a meme is a better way to start.

If you say hey, (like every other guy), you don't stand out and give the chick nothing to go on from, plus it sets a boring vibe.

Just send a meme going hey, they will probabaly reply with a meme if their own, you now can comment on the meme (is it wierd? Was it a common meme? Does it have a cute dog ect) now you have a more natural conversation leading from the topic.

I am not the best when it comes to tinder or daring, but that's been my experiance so far.

Title	Moving beyond the "hey" step
Author	Sam_Deware
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	October 22, 2024 8:02 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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