I’ve been on tinder for almost one month. Ive tracked my stats on Tinder. So that you get a picture that it is not as many people think. But here's a realistic statistic from someone who looks over average in appearance and has tight game.

  • 160 matches in total
  • 35 unmatched due to uninterested
  • 95 unanswered my first message
  • 30 wrote back and had a conversation but either ghosted me or was generally cold and also been unmatched them.
  • 2 meet ups

So as you can see of 160 matches I just got only 2 lays from.

To be honest I don’t think I could do more to be successful , I’m only saying that if you think the lays are very low compare to the match. But the vast majority of women do not respond, and response ratio has been worse lately.

Btw I live in a city with 2.6 million population in Northern Europe.

PS: A lot of you coming and think I need advice if I’m doing wrong, the answer is no. I’m 100% aware what I’m doing and what works and not especially at online dating. Been doing online dating 2014. And had great success with my strategy. And now online dating are much more harder than before.

Don’t misunderstand my thread that I need help, I just want to put out my stats out there to you to see how the realistic lay looks like.

It’s all about playing numbers of games.