Need advice about life

epimpstyle · 2026-06-25T21:30:48+00:00

Why can't you do both at the same time? Humans are multitasking just like Windows, it's not like you can't approach a girl on your way home just because you're done with work.

ApartmentWorried5692 · 2026-06-25T22:46:14+00:00

If I could talk to my 20 year old awkward self, I’d say:

Stop trying to game girls, get into the habit of socializing with people instead. You’re putting the cart before the horse by hitting on girls if you don’t have basic social conditioning or ease. Girls can and WILL pick up on it, you’re not going to watch a video on YouTube to skip this. Next time you see a girl you like, don’t “cold approach” her, just look at her in the eyes. Then, look at another girl and smile. Build from there. Don’t fall for any “courses”, but read more books on this topic. I recommend “Models” by Mark Manson because it teaches letting go of neediness, and “No more Mr Nice Guy” by Robert Glover.

Orange_Codex · 2026-06-25T21:11:06+00:00

Financial freedom always comes first, followed by personal virtue and character. Enjoyment of every other good depends on these. All your relationships should add to one or the other. If they don't, they're not worth your time.

At twenty, play around with a compound gain calculator to see how easy it will be to retire a multi-millionaire if you consistently park money in high-yield savings accounts and ETFs (assuming a yearly 5% gain, which is typical for major stock indices).

ControlGood8979 · 2026-06-26T06:41:13+00:00

Do both. A great career and being a millionaire will do fuck all if you can't talk to the opposite sex.

Make it your goal to learn everything about human psychology and implement it as it will pay huge dividends. Being likeable is a superpower. Follow your career goals be likeable and charismatic and when women just turn up in your life be ready to invite them in.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-06-25T22:23:40+00:00

So what... you are never goingto talk to a girl yuntil you retire?

Do you have no feee time outside work, no friends, goto no social events whatsoever? You just work, work, work, work?

I put focus on my career, but it is not a 34/7 thing. I also put focus on gym. I also make a point of having a social life.

Granted I cut back the hours watching Netflix, but boo fucking hoo.

Pedalcrunch · 2026-06-26T13:24:49+00:00

try to focus on career, but if I girls shows up all along don't turn her down!!

Funky_hobbo · 2026-06-25T21:08:46+00:00

Focus on your life, including career.

Then you can think about what's next

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-06-25T23:06:51+00:00

Career is number one for sure, never ever compromise that

messias94 · 2026-06-30T23:34:32+00:00

Einfach ins feld und durchstarten

Title	Need advice about life
Author	External-dark5642
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	June 25, 2026 8:53 PM UTC (1 month ago)
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