Every time I go to a bar or club, it’s so hard for me to approach women.

I automatically think of myself as unattractive, and then I see women as hella intimidating.

I’ve done all the things necessary to improve my life. I am physically fit, have stable income, dress nice, but even when I feel 100%, it’s so hard for me to make moves.

I am scared of bothering women, and then I leave home regretting why I didn’t try.

Any advice would be appreciated.