Ok, so I got into cold approach a while ago. I've only gotten about 10 dates from it, but they never got past the first date. All of them ended with a kiss, and sometimes some texting, then I'd never see her again because she'd stop replying.

The ONLY time I've seen a girl more than once was when I did like NO kino at all (first date ever), or when we had sex. And the girls I did have sex with, I never took on dates, so I don't understand what I'm doing wrong.

The only thing I could think of is that maybe when I escalate throughout the date, the girl thinks we're gonna have sex, then when I just kiss her, she thinks I want a serious relationship and stops talking to me.

As of right now, I just want to get laid again, but even so, it'd be nice to be casually dating someone.

What do you guys think I'm doing wrong?