Night game tips make no sense

Kenic_In_MD · 2019-12-14T02:35:59+00:00

It's not impossible to open a large set, just difficult. If there is a big dance floor then dance by yourself and genuinely have a great time. I can't explain it but if you do this a girl will start dancing with you. Then you can just talk to her. You will very rarely find a girl at a bar or a club by herself. Start opening group sets.

bournit · 2019-12-14T09:29:40+00:00

The all environment of the night game is designed for one and only one thing : sell you a product. The common shared narration about parties is that music is great, alcohol is free, and girls are disposable. And actually is often the exact contrary : music is awful, alcohol costs a lot and damages you, and girls don't really want to be approached.

I've read all the other comments, and I've noticed how all the guys insist on the fact you're lazy and that you have to do more for night game. I say fuck it. You don't have to work for game, but you have to find your game, your way to do the thing.

I think the struggles you had that night are common between almost all of the guys, so think about it : continue pursuing a well sold dream or go actually for what you want (girls) ? One year ago I choose the latter, I disqualified nightgame as my first option, and passed to daygame. And I started having more results than ever, while learning a lot more than ever.

I'm not saying getting girls from nightgame is impossible, I'm saying : if nightgame is so overcrowded, difficult, based on social circles and gerarchies, and mainly on the status, why not trying something really different ?

Atriev · 2019-12-14T02:36:16+00:00

Welcome to night game. I assume you’re a daygamer. I am too.

First, if it’s too loud, you don’t need to open the group. Just open the target. If things go well, you will have to figure out the girl’s logistics. Maybe the girl is the designated driver and needs to drive everyone home or maybe the girl is with her coworkers and her boss is in that group. In that case, figure out her logistics later but generate attraction first.

Second, group sets are a MUST. No one goes to clubs alone except for some of us PUA’s. So you will need to open groups. If the music is loud, open the girl and handle group theory later. If the group is standing/sitting somewhere the music is not too loud, open the whole group with an indirect open (“you guys seem like fun”) or open the girl and then say “oh hey are here your friends?”

Third, the eye contact thing is hard sometimes. It can be dark. And it can be too hard to notice things. So just chill back, sit down, enjoy the music, and maybe you’ll spot some eyes. But if you don’t, just keep cold approaching.

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-12-14T02:45:03+00:00

So yesterday you learned a few things :

Approaching by talking in a loud club doesn't work
Engaging the whole group without talking is impossible
You cannot approach from the front people that are dancing in a circle
It's hard to have girls make eye contact with you in a club.

What to get out of that :

Don't try to talk much if she can't hear you
Don't engage the whole group if the music is too loud to do so
Approach from the side or find ways to get her attention
Force eye contact by staring or by doing anything to get her attebtion

Aghayden · 2019-12-14T06:21:41+00:00

Your mindset is all wrong. You're coming across obstacles and you're thinking about why those mean it's impossible and nightgame sucks etc. etc.

Instead, think about possible solutions and what you could do differently.

Obviously, plenty of men have found success in nightclubs. Have the mindset that you're going to figure this shit out rather than basically giving up after one try.

Imagine someone went to the gym one time, they tried to lift 50-pound dumbbells, they failed, and they said, "Taking my experience into consideration, how is the gym of any use for building muscle?"

That's what you sound like.

Get better, not bitter. You haven't exhausted all the possible strategies after one single night going out, you've barely scratched the surface and you're already giving up on yourself.

On a deeper level, if you were a woman, would you be attracted to the kind of man who gives up on something after one difficult experience?

Probably not.

GomboAndGimlee · 2019-12-14T04:42:20+00:00

Loud club game is mostly visual. How you're dressed, face/body, facial expression (smiling & having a good time), the way you move, who you're with.

Billywhiskerino · 2019-12-14T09:13:59+00:00

People usually come to the club with a group of friends. The main thing about dancing in a circle of people though is that the vast majority of people dancing in it wants to dance with someone 1v1 and doesn’t do that either because of lack of confidence or passive approach and waiting for someone else to initiate. The conclusion is that you should simply come up to a circle like these and ask a girl you’re attracted to for a dance. If she’s at least remotely attracted to you, she will agree. When you’re dancing with her, you can put your hands around her waist (if she agrees, obviously) and hold the conversation then, as it is gonna be much easier to hear her when you’re closer to each other (no to mention the sexual tension that will build thanks to the proximity of your bodies)

HighValueDayGame · 2019-12-14T20:53:53+00:00

Nightgame is not only about loud nightclubs, there are plenty of venues where you can actually talk with girls (cocktail bars, lounges, early-evening bars, etc).

Nightgame venue selection

Have a look at this as well, explaining why bars and lounges are superior to nightclubs:

Comparing different types of Game

Title	Night game tips make no sense
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Date	December 14, 2019 2:28 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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