Night vs Day game, which do you prefer?

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-08-30T19:12:17+00:00

I like day game because I don't really fit in with the college crowd in bars and clubs around here. Also, I can use day game anywhere, any time, but bar and club game you pretty much have to go out of your way to find it.

GiggityGiggidy · 2011-08-30T19:12:18+00:00

I agree. Clubs are too noisy to effectively have game, especially if you have a baritone voice like mine that tends to blend in with a bass beat.

ImKumarYo · 2011-08-30T19:44:57+00:00

I like bar game better. Then again, I don't day game ever. Opening girls during the day is just a part of every day life.

Also, there is a big difference between bars and clubs. I don't like clubs for the same reasons as you but that doesn't hold true in a bar where you can make girls laugh.

bcktth · 2011-08-30T20:04:25+00:00

Depends what you're looking for.

If it's having a substantial conversation and putting a smile on someone's face, then I prefer day game as it allows me to go direct and cut to the chase.

If it's having a fun unexpected time and k-closing then night game. Sure, the girls there are out knowing they are going to get/give attention but it's all in fun and practically anything goes.

If I had to pick one though, day game.

StarkNYC · 2011-08-31T04:10:50+00:00

Agreed that it depends, but for the explicit intent of meeting/dating girls (as opposed to just having fun flirting), in general, day game by far because: (A) I am interested in gorgeous women and, in my experience, they are far, far easier to meet/date/hookup with during the day. (B) Day game is more sincere. Sincerity and honest in general is a good thing. (C) It takes lots of balls. Something really satisfying about consistently putting it out there in the day and flexing those courage muscles... (D) There are so many beautiful women during the day - I'd like to meet those (whereas the girls at night often aren't pretty once they're undolled and many of the highest quality girls I've dated/known either don't go out that much or literally refuse to talk to guys when I go out.) (F) It's less work/less effort

frogma · 2011-08-31T04:31:02+00:00

Like you said in a comment, "party" game's the best because you're usually dealing with girls in your social circle, you usually get to talk (like day game), while still being able to escalate fast as hell (like you would in a bar). Parties are also cool cuz you can play a few girls off each other and you have automatic social proof (assuming people like you). Parties are also usually more fun for me than bars, because I get to drink with friends and I also get to play drinking games (which can help with escalation and shit). When I'm at a party, it's easy to just focus on having a good time, and it's easy to be nonchalant with the girls. It's harder to do that at a bar, especially without a wingman (and I don't like to have wingmen). And if I'm at my house or a friend's house, I usually don't have to take the girl too far- whereas at a bar, I might be more than a few miles away from my place.

Bar/club game and day game both have their benefits and drawbacks. It's easier to get to know a girl during the day, and you can usually have a good conversation as long as you're not a weirdo. Whereas at a bar you might get blown out immediately for no reason. I still prefer bars though because I can make out with multiple girls in a pretty short time and have a legit chance of taking them home with me within the hour. Can't really do that during the day. I also don't try to get numbers or set up "day-2s" because they're pointless to me- I'd much rather just fuck a girl and go from there, which is a lot easier to do at a bar. If you're having trouble with conversation in a bar, learn how to use your body language and learn how to gauge the girl's. You'll at least be able to make out with a few girls if you've got balls, and it's not hard to pull a girl without even much of a conversation.

Also OP, who cares that there's a lot of tall guys in clubs? I've done fine at the clubs I've been to, and I'm a bit shorter than you. Stop paying attention to the guys. Focus on the girls and approach them- then the other guys won't matter.

new_player · 2011-09-01T00:20:37+00:00

It's easier to find higher quality because they're not immediately on the defensive, you're sober, and you can actually tell/remember who/what is going on. But even still, my night game has given me good success so I love them both equally, for different reasons.

Title	Night vs Day game, which do you prefer?
Author	HyperByte27
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	August 30, 2011 7:02 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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