Nonverbals, Communication, And Cavemanning

dejust · 2011-11-29T20:42:14+00:00

Well, this guy has his shit together. His text was unstructured as hell, but apart from a few WTF moments, he was basically saying what all the handy one-liners in /r/seduction like "Be outcome independent", "Don't give a fuck", "Assume attraction" say.

He's either a natural who reflected on his dating behaviour or someone who his already past his schoolbook pick-up behavior because he has calibrated. Like the thing about buying girls drinks. It's a "simple" way to demonstrate value if you refuse to buy a girl a drink, but maybe this guy found a way to buy a girl a drink and still demonstrate value.

He says he wants the girl to keep some value herself, which is something to think about. It's kind of like pushing and pulling, but on a greater scale.

Big_Timber · 2011-11-29T19:43:58+00:00

This is an absolutely retarded article. I can't take advice from a person who walks into a party and says, "Damn, I shaved my balls for this?," "This gangbang is getting off to a bad start." Calling people cornfed white girls, telling girls that "I carry girls away over my shoulder."

He says that if you make a yo' momma joke (who even does that) and the person's mom has cancer, you are supposed to ignore it like it never happened, like its not a big deal. Then the other person is going to feel the same way. /s GREAT ADVICE! s/ No, I am going to feel bad about it because I am a human being with a conscience and empathy, not some retarded fool who only cares about himself.

This is manwhoring at its finest, and for those who want to earn my derision, it is perfect. But I can't take this so-called man's advice. People, don't mistake any advice at being confident as the right way of being confident.

The most confident people I see around are crack addicts. I mean, they don't give a shit, they are outcome independent, they approach girls all the time! I don't take advice from them or from manwhores because I know the difference between the confidence and swagger that I want and the confidence and swagger that those people have.

Jemiller · 2011-11-29T22:26:46+00:00

"The rest of your face looks

Like.. a flaccid penis. Do you want the rest of your face.. to look like that?"

AAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA!! this man is cool.

Manwhorelio · 2011-12-03T18:18:42+00:00

Hey fellas, thx for repping my post! The article in question is not actually an article it's an outline of a talk I gave so of course it's open to SERIOUS misinterpretation. It looks like a lot of you got value out of it and some misunderstood, which is fine, but if I can help clarify in any way I will do so.

The crazy remarks is just a symptom of being completely unstifled and being the "life of the party". Girls (and people in general) are just drawn to this kind of person. It's not the actual content of the remarks themselves, but what it communicates about the emotional well-being of the person saying them. He's a free spirit and runs his own show. All highly attractive

As far as the "mama" joke thing, the point here was NOT to preach insensitivity or an asshole vibe... but to be able to dissipate and control situations with potentially negative emotional repercussions. You can't control the fact that bad or awkward situations will happen. You can only control your response to them. What I was saying was that instead of going down that same emotional path with the person who's about to be "hurt", you instead control the frame in a more positive direction and keep things smooth and stable. Everyone will appreciate this and be even more drawn to you because nothing phases you.

Cheers fellas hope that clarifies things.

RedPosterboard · 2011-11-29T15:38:10+00:00

This is one long article by the Manwhore, but it remains some of the best stuff I've read recently. The Force is strong with that Manwhore... copy and print this, I will.

Title	Nonverbals, Communication, And Cavemanning
Author	RedPosterboard
Upvotes	21
Comments	6
Date	November 29, 2011 3:34 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mteis/nonverbals_communication_and_cavemanning/
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