Noob question: What are some good, simple things I can think or say to myself tonight to remind myself to stay assertive and playful?

legendofpasta · 2012-11-03T02:45:54+00:00

I usually have a little mantra in my head "I'm the prize. I'm the prize. I'm the prize" Keeps me alpha. Gives me courage

jimjoekelly · 2012-11-03T00:56:30+00:00

This video gives great insight into how to take approaching women less seriously which ultimately results in you being more relaxed.

The_Maytag_Man · 2012-11-03T13:25:04+00:00

"Don mother - fucking Draper." that's what I tell myself when I'm on the verge of acting like a little bitch...

pickup_sticks · 2012-11-03T22:03:10+00:00

I sometimes tell myself "if you're scared, that means you're doing it right." You can't have bravery without fear.

Sitin · 2012-11-03T07:15:46+00:00

Think of, if someone had to label you, what category would they place you in? Would they call you by your Job Title? Your fashion sense? or your personality? Fuck all those, you want people to label you by your name. Remember that in 50 years, all will know your name.

wtjones · 2012-11-03T12:54:08+00:00

You want to think that when she uses her vibrator she thinks about you, calls out your name as she's cumming. Keep that thought in your head and say to yourself "You dirty girl". See if that doesn't strengthen your frame.

Listen to the David Wygant stuff in the side bar.

jelloleaf · 2012-11-03T13:17:50+00:00

Live, laugh, fuck it

Everyone already loves to be around you.

2012-11-03T17:05:15+00:00

Sometimes I get too goal-oriented, and I forget to have fun. It starts out as, "Why am I here? To party! Why am I here? To party!" and eventually, just, "party! party! party! party!"

Also take your baby steps. I notice in myself I always try to backflip before I even walk, and then I beat myself up for screwing up. If I just did a little warm up approaches, loosened up a bit, relaxed, etc., I'd be fine.

BloodMuffin · 2012-11-04T00:44:08+00:00

for the playful part just imagine youre wearing a banana suit http://www.2brendans.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Foolproof-Halloween-Costume-No-Banana-Suit-vs-Banana-Suit.jpg I just love imagining a bunch of scenarios that are simply improved by wearing that suit

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5b4MxwRlcY for the assertion and just overall morale booster I keep this voice in my head and have it speak in the similar rhythms of the general

Title	Noob question: What are some good, simple things I can think or say to myself tonight to remind myself to stay assertive and playful?
Author	throwaway59393
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Date	November 3, 2012 12:28 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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