Not all girls like alphas

seldor · 2015-05-29T12:42:49+00:00

There is no such thing as "alpha" or "beta", and thinking there is will only hold you back.

A woman will like you if you develop a bond with her. Seduction should be a way for you to identity what it takes to forge that bond, and use it to satiate your goals (which should be mutual with her btw). Of course, these goals are usually sexual, which is fine, but you should be honest about that.

If you start trying to be "alpha", you'll just lose yourself, and become judgemental of people you see as "beta". You also will never understand how beta guys get girls.

Be true, be honest, be confident, be yourself. Don't try to be whatever someone said "alpha" should be

cmiovino · 2015-05-29T12:45:43+00:00

1) Reverse thinking then says "If I be beta, then one of these girls will like me, I can be her bitch and have a girl." Then you ask you self "Wait, do I really want to be someone's bitch? No."

You'll see a lot of women around the age of 30 want to date these beta individuals. They provide, they're safe, and they won't stray due to fear of loss and scarcity.

2) Alpha does not necessarily mean the godly beast of the group, so I do agree to an extent to what you've said there. Many times it does. However, being outgoing, charming, stylish, and smart and also come off as being alpha. It's like "I don't give a fuck, I'm going to do this my way, dress in this style, say what I want, and talk to people."

slipperydildofingers · 2015-05-29T12:19:16+00:00

I agree with all of this except for the last line.

It's a hell of a lot easier to be a beta you're just not necessarily going to be the center of attention.

DaygameCoach · 2015-05-29T13:01:22+00:00

"Not all girls" could be said about anything. Too broad a statement.

There are some women who are "tops" but its a helluva lot less than "bottoms" (or even "switches"). I think some of the women you think are tops are switches who would be happy with a man who is MORE dom than they are...sometimes that is a tall order but it still happens.

What we in the community call "naturals" ... are alpha. Maybe your definitions of alpha and beta are off.

Please define what you mean by alpha and beta.

soggyindo · 2015-05-29T13:49:41+00:00

These type of guys also attract women with strange fetishes.

You really need to read up more about subs and doms. None of this is "strange", it's a pretty standard sexual orientation question you'll be asked some day. It's quite a separate issue than "alphas" and "betas"

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-05-29T15:20:19+00:00

The natural you described is just a man who's introverted, with the self esteem of and courage that "alpha" entails. In fact If you swap out every alpha with extrovert, and every beta with introvert, you have a better post (although I'd still disagree with how often point 1 happens)

Here I switched the words out see: ... Not all girls like extroverts

One thing Ive observed is that alot of chicks actually prefer introverted males. But, there is a catch.

1) THey go for a introverted male, because they want to be in power an in control, of the situation. Basically the guy is her bitch, and she knows hell be loyal because shes the best he thinks he can do. These type of guys also attract women with strange fetishes. (this case he's probably actually beta.. but the way she picks up on that is observing the introversion, but that introversion doesn't mean by default she's got em.)

2) Naturals, Alot of naturals are introverted males, they are charming relate to women, very stylish, or very smart. These guys can pull off being an introverted male, most guys cannot pull off being an introvert.

Its way easier to become an extrovert than try to pull off being introverted.

Title	Not all girls like alphas
Author	tamilgangster
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	May 29, 2015 12:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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