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On the spot makeout & hookup, possible?

Filthy_Asswipe · 2026-07-09T06:40:21+00:00

So if I approach a girl usually we fix a date for weekend then I meet her, escalate the touch and then makeout. Then booking a room to put my cucumber in her....

Filthy_Asswipe

July 9, 2026

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Title	On the spot makeout & hookup, possible?
Author	Filthy_Asswipe
Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	July 9, 2026 6:40 AM UTC (2 weeks ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1uribji/on_the_spot_makeout_hookup_possible/
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I guess they don't want to appear as easy or something

It's def this. Girls get slut-shamed for wnating to have sex. A friend and i used to go out to bars/clubs and nights we did well we noticed we werent closing well. Like we'd make otu with girls and still theyd just go home and we'd never see them.

So we decided to take a step back and try to formulate a way to better our chances. So something we noticed is when it was time to leave, we would be super direct with women about what we wanted from them. We'd go "your. so hot let's go back to my place and netflix and chill" or just be super direct. Theyd be like "no thank you" and leave. Why? Because we basically told them that "we only hungout with you because we want to fuck". And now they feel like sluts or like we are treating them that way.

So instead we took it back to bsaics. Basically lead with an idea and it's their choice whether they want to go home with us or not. It does not make or break us if they decide to go home. So if it's a girl we dacne with, kiissed, etc. we go up to them at night's end when everyone is deciding to leave and I would hold them closer to me, kiss them and say "what's the plan for the rest of the night?". If she was interested she'd say "idk what was your plan?" and id say "well im having a good time i know this bar that opens after hours that we can go to?" or "i have a bottle of wine im trying to test out if youre down to test it with me". That way im telling her "i want to keep hanging out but if you want to go home that's cool too". Im reading her body language the whole time, anytime she hesitates or pulls back i let her go. If it's a cutesy "i want to but i feel ashamed people might think im a ho", i make sure i respond wiht "look it's your choice, im just having fun with you and im not expecting anyhting". Because then she thinks "well i can go home with him and leave whenever i dont need to spend the night". And if we are at my place and she drinks one cup and wants to leave, cool ill get the uber. But most of the time they actually want to stay.

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