2️⃣----- Day 2 ----- So today I did about 5-6 approaches in 4 different locations, was out all day. I was alone today and it is way harder to do this when you are on your own. It took me quite a while to get over the approach anxiety barrier and actually approach someone! (Any tipps on that?). Many girls have also been with their friends/family so that was kind of a barrier too for me. (Need to get over that asap). So there was one Approach I think was quite good and wanna talk about. It was at a supermarket. I applied the tipp with asking for directions.
Me: approaching the girl "Hey, excuse me, do you know if there is a h&m store around anywhere? I'm feeling kind of lost haha" Her: being very polite "There is no h&m store in this city, but you can go this shopping center (describing it and how to get to it)" Me: "Oh okay, I'm looking for a tommy Hilfiger belt as a present for my friend, do you know where I can get something like that?" Her: "Well I don't know exactly where to get it but you should try out these stores (describing them)" Me: "Thank you that's great! Are you from here?" Her: "Yes I live here" Me: "That's cool, what are you doing in your free time?" (Us talking a little bit about University and studying bla bla..) Me: "Well honestly, I know the directions and everything, I just needed smth to approach you, because you are really cute. Do you want to grab a coffee sometime?" Her: "Oh that's cute but I have a boyfriend I'm sorry!" Me: "Well that's okay, we could grad a coffee as friends!" Her: "Thank you but I don't think this will be possible" So I wished her a good day and we went on.. She was being very polite and everything and I think she took it as a compliment :) I didn't get anything out from all the other approaches which kind of sucks. Won't give up. Keep you guys updated!
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