Online dating

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-30T21:39:01+00:00

First: Be attractive.

Second: Have an attractive social media account.

Three: Get a lot of followers on your social media account.

Four: Message the girl.

You can skip the first 3 steps. But step 4 is mandatory.

Why don't you do step 4 first before you ask for advice? Don't try to avoid failure - seek out more failure and rejection. F it up before asking for help.

Your mindset is already that of a loser when you ask for advice so you can "be successful / avoid messing it up". You should ALWAYS be willing to mess it up, and you should mess up often. Do that like 50 times. DM a bunch of women. And THEN you can ask for advice.

Commissar_David · 2025-10-30T19:41:41+00:00

The best advice I can give is to not date online, especially as a guy. Sliding into DM's isn't better, especially if you don't know them or never crossed paths. It's a losing game that drains more energy than you'll ever get back.

SuitOfWolves · 2025-10-30T18:30:30+00:00

In what category of strange does she fit into?

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-31T03:24:22+00:00

I'd say don't or use it as low effort for when you're on the toilet or otherwise have nothing else to do.

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-10-31T05:04:59+00:00

Find a good opener and messaging routine to use on every girl

Title	Online dating
Author	Any_Freedom_7540
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 30, 2025 6:23 PM UTC (9 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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