i was a 21 year old virgin up until about a week ago, never so much as kissed a women. I cold approached my first ever girl at a bookstore and it was the one i now lost my virginity to. I was incredibly drunk and couldn't actually cum, i also lost my erection like halfway through. I was incredibly nervous, the second time we met it also ended terribly because I couldn't even get hard, i was completely sober. She thought it was her and i just came clean and said i was a virgin and havent been in a relationship. We're meeting up tomorrow and i know shes gunna want to fuck, i know i should want to fuck too but im just really nervous, the kicker is i havent jerked off in like 3 weeks and i still cant get hard, any advice? Im actually usually very horny, its just all overcome by extreme anxiety