Please help

PeakyAndre · 2020-08-21T23:53:18+00:00

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alfadog77 · 2020-08-22T00:04:56+00:00

Bro trust me I know your pain.

My ex and I broke up in May and a month and half later she's dating a friend of mine... that I was venting too... while she was in bed next to him. You don't understand the rage I still have 2 months later.

I straight up called this dude and said if I see you in person it's lights out(maybe, depends on if there are cameras and witnesses) Very glad I picked up boxing as a new hobby after we ended things.

We will both get through this! Fuck our ex's. There is defintely better things out there for both of us.

BarbellFanatic · 2020-08-22T01:40:25+00:00

Brother, it's ok.

I need you to remember that you two broke up for a reason. It didn't work. Whether you broke up with her, or she broke up with you, there was an agreement that it was over. And that's ok. She is free and has every right to be.

There are no commitments, no guidelines, no rules of a break up. There's no "You shouldn't do this" or "If she really cared then she wouldn't" That's bullshit. You have no fucking idea how's she feeling right now. No clue. At all.

Whether she's over you, whether she's not does not matter. What you two had is done and dude, it's ok. You shouldn't want a broken relationship any way and right now your still so used to being with her that it hurts. Right now it feels like that pain won't ever ever ever go away.

It will

If she broke up with you because of something, then grow and aspire to change that part of you (if you want to) not to win her back, but to understand your flaw. Then become a new person. A better person. She may not trust that your different now but believe me, the next girl will. You'll be a phoenix that rises from the ashes.

If you broke up with her, well, why the hell are you worried about a girl you didn't want and weren't compatible with any way?

Let her be my brother. Let her live. And you'll learn how to live too. The pain will fade away and you'll be alright and you'll laugh about this shit

It's all gonna work out. I'm speaking 100% from the same shoes you were in.

Nessieeee9 · 2020-08-22T00:20:34+00:00

Know your worth king

donaldtrumpsmistress · 2020-08-22T00:38:32+00:00

Only tangentially relevant but please please please get out of the habit of punching walls asap. A couple months ago when bars first opened some guy tried to fight me for talking to his friend's gf, I left the bar but punched a news stand and my hands are now permanently fucked up. Had to go to occupational therapy and everything, which helped, but they're still all fucked up and it takes concerted effort to reach in my pocket for anything. Lose that habit immediately

atticusishe · 2020-08-22T01:51:44+00:00

Nice you’re angry you have all these emotions. You know what will happen next? You’ll probably do something stupid. You should go hit a gym hike or do push ups and redirect your hate on making yourself better

Itz_VonVon · 2020-08-22T02:19:29+00:00

Bro never desire to fight another guy over ur girl. That's how you get killed or end up in jail and someone still ends up plowing her.

A lot of us have been there too best thing you can do is avoid parties n go take care of yourself and take ur time to heal.

If u really wanna make it burn then try meeting n hooking up with a lot of girls too just as how she flirting pisses u off u doing the same will piss her off. And most likely she did it to piss u off cuz that's what women do.

Nothing hurts a woman more than a guy doing way better than he was while with her so just work on urself, go make some money ,get fitter,make more friends most of all just be happier.

itunesphila · 2020-08-22T00:17:24+00:00

What helped me when I had my first heartbreak was to not get angry and upset and to say fuck her she’s a bitch...but to show gratitude because now you have a chance to find someone better for you...some people are put in your life to teach you a lesson...obviously the relationship wasn’t going well or else you guys would still be together...she most likely checked out of the relationship a long time ago that’s why she moved on so easily. Pretty soon she not even going to be on your radar as long as you don’t give her control over your emotions....Stay strong and cry if you need to (privately of course)...blessings

Kikiboobs · 2020-08-22T01:39:51+00:00

If it really gets to you that much, don’t go to the parties. Let her drift into the past. Some girls it can take years for you to forget, sometimes you never can let go of those feelings you have for them. Punching holes in the wall is not the way to go my dude. Trust me, I’ve been there. You leave yourself with the lingering anger, and a hole you have to fix in the future.

As you said “fuck her”. She’s your ex my man, that’s all that matters. Focus on the EX part of that. Fuck her, she is non existent. Your time as a couple has passed. Just try and live your life. Meet new women. That’s what helped me after a bad breakup. New women are always a nice distraction. Those feeling won’t go away overnight, but a distraction can always be useful. Like playing a video game when your stressed about your job or something

GoldSmith64 · 2020-08-22T02:40:17+00:00

Maybe look at it this way. You were together for two whole wonderful years with a nice girl, no matter how you look at it, that’s a victory my friend. okay you broke up, but it’s okay, break ups are common. You will be fine

juicemin · 2020-08-22T03:16:26+00:00

Its ok bro, a lot of us have been there. It sucks HARD. Time will pass and eventually you’ll start to get over it. Just look forward to that. There isn’t really anything you can do to speed up the process. Accepting things for what they are always helps though.

resavr_bot · 2020-08-22T21:39:54+00:00

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Dude listen to me please. I was there one month ago. My ex-gf and I, who said she still had feelings for me and I was still in love with, had a conversation where we agreed we wouldn’t look for other people in case we wanted to get back together this Fall.

Well 5 days later she fucked someone she met a week earlier after we were together for 1.5 years and she was the only one I’ve ever been with. [Continued...]

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Twobithatter · 2020-08-21T23:57:32+00:00

Best thing you can do is find yourself a new women. I would go and find a couple of them

Title	Please help
Author	PeakyAndre
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	August 21, 2020 11:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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