I know I said I was gonna watch game of thrones and jerk it but last minute plans happened and I decided to go to that house party. Anyway I went, shit went great, I don't want to bore you all with the details but I got with a girl, we danced, grinded, made out, danced face to face. Things were going swell and I was doing great on the dance floor like I manage to do most of the time.

HOWEVER, this is where shit falls apart. HOW DO I BRING HER BACK HOME? Like it's so hard, at one point we stop dancing and I talk into her ear wanna take a break? And we do and she says she needs to find her friends. She starts leading me upstairs which I know is a bad move. But when we got there she started looking for her friends and I tried to isolate. I got her number and I tried to calm her down, she was a bit drunk so it was difficult to speak right to her.

The point is, I didn't just directly say, hey wanna go back to my place? I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE SAYING THIS. I haven't honestly straight up said this to a girl so that's probably why, but I probably need to just blurt it out. Maybe I should have just said that as we were up stairs. I feel fucking creepy about it though. I know that's a bad mindset. It should be natural right to just invite her back obviously after we have been making out? I just feel rapist like if I were to just blurt it out. I wanted to diverge it a bit by saying let's get food at my place. Even if I did say this though and she obviously wanted to find her friends first what should I do? If I let her she'll probably just hug and kiss them for days and then I'd probably just lose her as she gets entangled with them. Should I just not let her see them and try to pull?

What's the secret guys? Are you suppose to just blurt out an invitation after some dancing and making out or should you talk a bit first? I feel like I definitely COULD'VE pulled this if i KNEW WHAT THE FUCK TO DO. I literally didn't know. This is such an intermediate sticking point. I was so lost, i didn't read enough theory at all on how to overcome this, it was fucking hard. What's the right way to handle this? Please I just want to get over this sticking point and actually pull a girl back.

EDIT: I have a number, should I even bother to text it and if so what should I say? Whenever I text these numbers NOTHING arises from it so I'm not hyped at all.

EDIT: I KNOW for a fact that if I played my cards right I definitely could've gotten laid. I just don't know the right technique for this guys. Seriously, if only I knew the knowledge on what to do and what mindsets I'm suppose to embody. If anyone is interested in reading a full FR of this and would like to seriously help me with this issue let me know. Please be experienced though and know what you're talking about