[Question] What are some simple body language tips/hacks/habits you've developed for flirting and dating?

antihostile · 2014-10-22T05:27:31+00:00

Stand up straight, shoulders back.

evolve1337 · 2014-10-22T02:00:48+00:00

An amazing habit: say their name!

koala_diarrhea · 2014-10-22T03:51:48+00:00

Don't fidget, shake your foot, or tap your fingers. These things make you look & feel nervous. Also, keep open body language. Don't cross your arms or put them in front of you on a table because non-verbally closes you off from the other person.

69Cobalt · 2014-10-22T18:46:49+00:00

Watch Russell Brand's body language in interviews and stuff he has that shit down so perfectly

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-10-21T21:47:06+00:00

Here

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-21T21:42:14+00:00

Read Superflirt, Superdate, and You Say More Than You Think.

I don't think they cover it, but if she makes eye contact and looks down and back up and you, its a good thing.

I also turn sideways towards them when i open a set walking towards me...so she has to turn towards me. Make her stick in place and stop looking in the direction she was going.

Cuisine, Daygamer.net

Whamolabass · 2014-10-22T00:59:13+00:00

Sit up straight, make eye contact with everyone in the room. Most importantly have fun conversation with those around you. I don't believe in social proofing but knowing people in the environment you are in really takes some of the pressure off to just be yourself.

AtticusWarhol · 2014-10-27T04:23:25+00:00

Hers a list of simple things I do now because of pick up and learning body language.

When meeting a girl and shaking her hand for the first time, use both hands. It creates an added sense of warmth and security that helps prime her in trusting you. Also make sure your hands aren't cold.
Every time I make her laugh I touch her shoulder or arm. This Instills the idea of her having a good time with your touch.
If she agrees. HIGH FIVE! It's important to break the physical contact barrier ASAP. This make her more comfortable with your touch.
Direct eye contact with a smirk. Imagine her giving you a BJ. If she replies "What?!" while either touching her hair or looking down. You're doing it right. Sexual tension built.
Take up space. Arm motions when telling a story. Stretches arms over chairs or booths. Lean back. Shows confidence and dominance of space.
Hierarchy of touch Hand < Arm < Shoulder < Thigh < Back < Neck < Face < Ass < Boob < Crotch
easier to grab butt then grope a boob in public

king_of_nogainz · 2014-10-22T05:51:59+00:00

Mad dawg them until they submit, and then reward them with kino.

1234yawaworht · 2014-10-22T14:36:57+00:00

This Amy Cuddy Ted Talk is really helpful with seduction and other aspects of life.

PM_ME_Y0UR_NUDES__ · 2014-10-22T12:27:14+00:00

"Hey, I don't think we've met yet?" or "You can't stare at me and not say hello!"

OP, what is your success rate with these two questions? I mean I want to use them this weekend in a club but I don't want to sound awkward.

Walker3000 · 2014-10-21T22:00:19+00:00

I don't know I think I am terrible at body language. But I don't really care. I just try to do what comes naturally. Sometimes when I want to I fake it to make it. But yeah I suck.

QuackAttack_00 · 2014-10-21T22:21:28+00:00

Kino works. Use the escalation ladder. All this other shit is written by virgins for virgins.

Title	[Question] What are some simple body language tips/hacks/habits you've developed for flirting and dating?
Author	henhoup2
Upvotes	73
Comments	27
Date	October 21, 2014 9:11 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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