Read all the Beginner Material but haven't done any approaches yet. Is there anything else I should read before I start?

fastzander · 2020-06-05T09:51:08+00:00

My goals, at present, are merely to do 100 approaches, get one date, and get rejected 100 times (to desensitize myself to rejection), and I want to know if what I've read/know thus far is enough to get as far as that. (Sex/a relationship are waaaaay out of the ballpark, at present).

This is nuts. Internet bullshit has fucked your head. Your goal should be to have a good time and/or sex if that's what you want. There are actually intricate and hard-to-verbalize reasons for this , but it isn't necessary to go into them.

I don't want to overwhelm myself by reading more advanced stuff,

Advanced stuff? This isn't physics 101, physics 102 , etc

Here's the thing no one here is going to tell you-

There's no 1-size-fits-all approach. Everything is based on you. People can do vastly different things and get a lot of success in sex and dating. That's part of being a man and an individual, having one's own personality, and one's own experiences and observations.

If you must read something, read some classic literature.

revente · 2020-06-05T13:40:43+00:00

No you alredy know all the theory but lack all the work. There are no magic bullets you just need to practice.

One piece advice for you- you already know too much, in the heat of the moment you won't be able to use elaborate witty openers and it may feel a lot scarrier than you anticipated. Just forget about fear for 3 seconds, start walking towards her and say hi!

DD780 · 2020-06-05T09:29:37+00:00

No, start practicing, seduction is 80% practice and 20% books.

quinnmcd · 2020-06-05T14:50:57+00:00

I made the beginner material post. It mostly made to direct the people that don't read the rules and/or ask questions that have already been asked 100 times. Reading all the material is good an all, but it means absolutely nothing if you aren't applying them. Not everything works or will even help you in game. You're supposed to try things out and see what works for you and gets YOU results.

Don't spend all day mentally masturbating to the thoughts of being good with women or approaching them actually do it. Approaches have a lot more to do with energy and emotions than they do with theory.

MattPruga · 2020-06-05T18:10:14+00:00

Haha funny thing is you shouldn't read anything before you start. Guys tend to start reading and reading, keep "getting" information. But actually, they are just afraid of approaching the more they read.

EarthWarping · 2020-06-05T18:42:03+00:00

No. Get out there an approach.

Nothing will help you more than actually doing it.

2020-06-06T01:26:13+00:00

This is pretty much my same goal.

I'm about 15 approaches in and have number closed 4 times, no dates just yet but texting one girl. I'm going out tomorrow to continue the challenge. I'm pretty much desensitized to approach anxiety after the first dozen approaches.

Also don't read any more material just dive in and adapt.

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