Really bad at the dance part?

joshsmith5 · 2013-09-02T09:44:26+00:00

Watch Hitch.

Neurotics · 2013-09-02T11:20:32+00:00

The big thing here is maintaining your balance, this can be achieved though positioning your feet about shoulder width apart and bending your knees slightly. This should make you a bit more stable and help you avoid stepping back, as it is an odd position to step from, but easy to grind.

DrainBroke · 2013-09-02T09:36:59+00:00

surely_joking · 2013-09-02T08:45:35+00:00

Drop your center of gravity a bit?

TREVI5001 · 2013-09-02T15:32:17+00:00

Bend your knees and 'sit' down a little bit. You should be able to use your leg muscles to keep stable.

l337m4n · 2013-09-02T17:43:53+00:00

Swivel and the dip, swivel and the dip.

recyclablebantha · 2013-09-03T03:52:39+00:00

....In reality when they push against me, I find myself unable to stand still and usually will take a step back or to the side in order to regain my footing.

Sounds like you're already on the path to figuring it out. You pretty much have to account for the fact that they might not know how to dance and especially if they're drunk. You ought to be bracing yourself for impact when they start backing it up.

It will help if you're not blasted drunk by the time you get to this point.

L1AM · 2013-09-03T06:51:07+00:00

Basic position: Feet shoulder-distance apart, a little more than a casual bend in the knees (compensates for height, better dance feel), hands on her hips. This will anchor you and her.

Basically match their movements. Oftentimes, the girl will have some sort of an idea of what they're doing.

Otherwise, you'll have to guide it. Sway, rotate, gyrate – that move that girls do where they move their hips in a wide circle around them? That absolutely works for guys, too. Sometimes go a little lower, sometimes move a little higher. The goal is to cause a decent amount of "rubbing." Personally, I've found this is most easily done through small differences in the angles at which the two of you are joined, as you move.

1vibe · 2013-09-03T14:04:48+00:00

Grab onto their hips

meat_delivery · 2013-09-02T10:29:52+00:00

I'd say google for some videos on grinding, look on youtube for some kind of tutorial.

Title	Really bad at the dance part?
Author	oxymoronman
Upvotes	37
Comments	12
Date	September 2, 2013 5:43 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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