Save, these six lessons I learned, to your camera roll

not_the_irrelevant · 2017-10-17T09:51:21+00:00

I dont think the first point is true. Wait too long and she will think of you as a friend and not be interested in dating. There needs to be certain mystery in her mind about yourself. And honestly, you will save time if you just ask her and move on if she is not interested. Don't be open to be friendzoned and you won't be.

2017-10-17T11:20:20+00:00

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potato_w1zard · 2017-10-17T02:33:28+00:00

1 is okey if you build a non platonic relationship and you make sure to friend zone her not the other way around. Also how do you explain one night stands if you need a relationship first but? Is your goal to get a girlfriend or hook up? 2 is a gigantic fallacy. Social Media is invaluable and if you neglect it you are wasting potential for social proof , which is one of the few things scientifically proven to attract girls. Getting phone numbers is a waste of time, it's much better to get Snapchat or insta and draw her into your world, show her how awesome your life is and why she should be a part of it. Also it's much more low pressure than getting a phone number, which flakes a ton.

2017-10-17T11:18:32+00:00

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WannaSeeTrustIssues · 2017-10-17T16:02:55+00:00

Am i the only one that can see good advice packed away in there?

1-5 is okay, with a bit of explanation. (1 ALOT of explanation, actually) 6 is just upside down though, like extremely upside down. Dude, ever heard of persistence? I have two FWB's thanks to PERSISTENCE! One was an just a friend for six months until we ended up frantically sexting after a date of hers didnt work out (dude didnt like bj's, wtf?) And a bit of time later after ALOT of sexting and flirting, i approached the fwb-question and she wanted the exact same thing with me! Perfect!

The other one, initally rejected me, i lived too far away even though she was super into me. I recently got her snap and ended up having gotten 9/10 nudes from her these past two evenings. She is turned on the max and offered to come stay with me for a weekend next month. She is into some F.R.E.A.K.Y shit!

And i can thank persistence for it so 6 is very wrong, painfully wrong.

SnapSocialGuru · 2017-10-17T12:59:08+00:00

If anyone reading this is interested in a strong, counter argument for point #2, read this

Long story short, one of the things I realized is people date people they’re familiar with.

If you’re posting great Snapchat stories, you’re giving people the opportunity to easily familiarize themselves with you.

This is a powerful alternative to texting.

ethical_pa · 2017-10-17T16:54:36+00:00

1- Yes. Yes you can. Sometimes, as crazy as it sounds, some women just want to fuck. If you don't recognize that and go for it, then she'll find someone else. There's no magic formula. Sometimes it's fast, sometimes it's slow. As surprising as it is, she's an individual who you will have to interact with to gauge this.

2 - Ok. Kinda useless, but a truism. Get off the god damn computer/phone and go talk to women.

3 - Sure. Push pull.

4 - That's fine, but how do you apply that? Going out solo is fuckin HARD and will refine your skills a lot more. Having good looking girls around you is a RESULT of good skills, not a strategy.

5 - Just fuckin sexist and stupid. You're not going to impress any women with that attitude. Try treating them with empathy and as individuals. Oh my god right?! Who would have thought?!

6 - Maybe. Kinda useless advice.

msgs · 2017-10-17T07:08:52+00:00

Fine points here.

Though 5 is misogynistic. Human beings are handicapped with biases and irrationality. You are perpetuating a harmful stereotype by singling out women.

Luffydude · 2017-10-17T13:36:02+00:00

1 is total bullshit

Social media is a gold mine, how are you going to do your 4 without social media?

Aghayden · 2017-10-18T04:38:11+00:00

Lol, most of this is such bad advice.

2017-10-17T12:14:09+00:00

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Fenzo1 · 2017-10-17T23:39:12+00:00

Social media is king. Something something social proof... There is a reason for why women spend all their time on phones.

I honestly disagree with a lot here.

Title	Save, these six lessons I learned, to your camera roll
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Date	October 17, 2017 1:29 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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