Seddit, help me conquer my oneitis!

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-04T03:35:10+00:00

You know, you can have a long term committed relationship, if that's what you want. It's not like heresy to stop spinning plates and invest yourself into a primary girlfriend. You never know, that single 9 might make you happier than a harem full of 6s and 7s.

puaqueso · 2011-02-04T02:54:37+00:00

you left out key details, such as if you've hooked up with hb9 or not, how many dates you've been on, etc.

if you have, and you really like her, I would move in for the relationship. girls are the gas pedal for the relationship, but you need to a) make her laugh alot b) give her stories/memories she can tell her friends and c) wrap those big arms around her.

best of luck

puaqueso · 2011-02-04T04:13:33+00:00

If you read this it will be one of the best tips you learned today. I used to have trouble with girls because I would daydream about them and make myself like her too much. With the HB9, whenever you thinking of her, you want to start imagining her playing with her clit, moaning, and calling out your name.

Remember dont think about kissing her and shit, just always imagine herself masturbating while moaning for you. Thanks

puaqueso · 2011-02-04T03:07:57+00:00

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cheddarchexmix · 2011-02-04T04:02:55+00:00

"Oneitis" is not a bad thing if it's because the girl is awesome, and she's also into you and already sleeping with you. I've cut down to seeing one girl a few times recently because I just didn't care about the other girls nearly as much as the one girl.

As for not becoming a supplicating doormat to the object of your affection, can't really give any tips other than keep up your game and don't suddenly start giving in to everything she wants.

CrPlunk · 2011-02-04T00:50:39+00:00

I had the same problem. then i got high one day and just didn't give a fuck. she talked, and i talked back. If i didn't like what i was hearing i didnt say anything. this must have got to her because she got all figity. kiss closed that night. :)

blackdevildisco · 2011-02-04T01:00:01+00:00

I think if you're spinning plates, you shouldn't be waiting for one them to break things off before you find someone new. Once you're seeing as many girls as you have time for, you should proactively "fire" the one you're least attracted to, and then try to add someone better.

So I would say, fire the HB6(s) and try to score a HB8 or another HB9.

philosarapter · 2011-02-04T14:58:27+00:00

I want her to think I am confident, cocky, and awesome.

Here's your problem.

You ARE confident, cocky and awesome... right? Spend time with her, be completely calm and cool, while providing her with some of the most epic experiences of her life. Remember, girls will associate you with whatever feelings they get around you. So: Whenever she's with you, she should be feeling blissful, exhilerated and horny.

You'll win this girl by original and amazing dates. (While acting like its no big deal.)

As for trying to keep your frame and not go crazy: What normally helps me is focusing on their flaws. [just don't go overboard on this] If your mind wont let you think of one, just imagine them taking a massive disgusting shit. This normally kills any feelings I have for a girl right away and reminds me that nobody is perfect. Haha :P

alexryane · 2011-02-04T02:15:24+00:00

Every time this happens to me she's amazing. She has more to her than her looks. She has that beautiful stare. She's into the same things as me. The sex is amazing. Her parents were fucked up like mine. She's an interesting race. She does something interesting in life. Blah. Blah. Blah.

Every single time, and this has yet to fail me: every time this happens, a better girl comes along and suddenly this girl is less attractive. I never learn of course but it happens every time.

Well fuck that, why should we get obsessed when it's clearly just some dumb evolutionary mechanism at work.

Title	Seddit, help me conquer my oneitis!
Author	puaqueso
Upvotes	9
Comments	28
Date	February 3, 2011 11:59 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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