Seduction for ADHDers?

3141592652 · 2024-09-18T11:48:39+00:00

• stop watching porn

•start talking to chicks

• don’t be a simp

Prestigious_Water336 · 2024-09-18T11:44:53+00:00

I teach everyone my basic system for pickup that's Tl;DR or the bottom line

when you see an approachable woman do the following in order

Comment about situation place or something happening

Introduce yourself

Make some small talk

Ask for number (if it's day game) then text her back that night to make plans for a date like coffee or dinner etc.

Flirt

Sexually escalate

Kiss

Pull

Now you know the basic system for day and night game

There's a little more to night game then the day game

And as I always say, be sure to be socially adapting and calibrating depending on the situation and woman.

pissshitfuckcuntcock · 2024-09-18T12:31:25+00:00

ADHD’er here. I find trying to engage in ‘the game’ frustrating and overwhelming, let alone trying to remember all the ‘rules’ and ‘tix boxes.’ It just overcomplicates things and stresses me out. I have found, however, outside of my anxiety, being ADHD can actually be used in our favor. If you’re anything like me, I cannot shut up, i’m very talkative and slightly hyper in social situations, I will take conversations in random areas and don’t say the standard shit you’re ‘supposed’ to say. This can backfire, and annoy people, but no one has ever accused me of being a boring conversationalist. It often gets misinterpreted as confidence or being interesting or funny by Women, especially those who get the same standard shit on dates or guys who approach them. I had one date tell me ‘you ask the WEIRDEST questions, are you new to this?’ which I thought had killed the date then and there, but she took me home. Spontaneity can be a blessing, but it doesn’t work for everyone. If you’re talking with a boring Woman, you’re going to suffer.

Ryzasu · 2024-09-18T11:43:58+00:00

Well if you're reading entire books about seduction you're doing it wrong anyway imo, saying this as someone who spent way more time learning the theory of this shit than actually doing. It is pretty useless and it didnt really get me anywhere, just made me a bigger overthinker than I already was

I can relate to being uninterested in most people, I dont have a solution for this I think you just have to find the people that you click with and that do interest you. Which is just a smaller amount of people for us neurodivergents but theyre out there

Leewaak · 2024-09-18T11:53:38+00:00

-Play the Numbers game

In your first approaches :

-Take it as a learning experience rather than getting chicks experience -have the mentality of you’re learning as you go and focus on seeing what works and what doesnt

hit the Numbers game you’ll eventually learn what u need from Trial and Error if ur focusing on improving as u go

Do this a whole lotta times a week and pay attention to what works and what doesnt. And what u did right and what u messed up on

ratfooshi · 2024-09-18T20:18:09+00:00

Sure.

Listen more than you speak
Match the energy of who you're engaged with
Pair your interactions with physical touch
Play hot and cold to keep them intrigued
Either act right away or not at all
Remember and say their name often
Eye contact

Just that first one will change the game for you. Try different environments to meet new characters. Go get em 🧯

Title	Seduction for ADHDers?
Author	LordPoopyIV
Upvotes	18
Comments	19
Date	September 18, 2024 11:32 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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