Can't remember where I saw this advice, but somewhere somebody said to go out and get rejected a bunch of times. I can't remember if it was 5, 10, 50 etc. But I decided to do it. Seeking rejection in the sense that you don't attach yourself to any specific outcome, but you make sure you approached.

I got so sick of being alone. It was the day before Christmas Eve and I went to a mall to walk around. I decided "I'm doing this. I can take another night of being lonely, but I can't take another day of knowing I've done nothing".

I decided on the following magic words. "Hi. I noticed you're really cute/beautiful. Can I have your phone number?"

That's it.

Since I'm seeking rejection, all I cared is that I got the words out.

So far I've done it 5 times and I feel SO MUCH BETTER. I finally did something tangible. It's getting easy to approach now. Pretty soon I will add more to it and go from there.

Just wanted to share this. If you're out there and afraid of meeting women, SEEK REJECTION!