Setting up Situations which get you Laid

Slightly_Skewed · 2019-03-26T18:58:14+00:00

photography has opened many doors to talk meet and work with all sorts of beautiful women, and the body of work i have created over the years as well as the direction i provide for all logistics involved qualifies me as an authority figure in this creative niche. the really cool and attractive ones that have a good attitude and are really easy to get along with are great candidates to ask if they care to join me for a drink or bite afterwards
i think the more important point to focus on here is that having awesome things going on in your life that you are passionate and knowledgeable about is attractive to women and has the added benefit of giving you plenty of things to talk about when you get her out for that drink

TheEqualist2 · 2019-03-26T18:14:18+00:00

I’d say yoga teacher is probably the best job/hobby/lifestyle that would set yourself up to be a yoga teacher.

Sarcasm aside, what is the actual question here?

WIA20XX · 2019-03-26T18:14:54+00:00

Bartender

hunterpua · 2019-03-26T18:46:15+00:00

The most important thing is not that you're an authority figure, its that you are direct authority over the women you are attracted to.

So if you're attracted to women that do yoga then yoga would be ideal for you, if you're attracted to club girls then night club owner would be ideal for you, if you are attracted to models then owning a modeling agency would be ideal for you.

If you're a yoga instructor trying to get girls from a nightclub then your position of authority doesn't mean that much.

The reason behind this, and you hit the nail on the head talking about context, is that as human beings we have what is called an In-Group bias and an Out-Group bias.

Basically we treat those who we perceive as part of our group more favorably than we do those who we perceive to be outside of our group.

So things like cold approach and online dating are the lowest levels where you can meet women because in those contexts you are perceived as part of the Out-Group and therefore things are hedged more towards perceiving you negatively.

Context will always be more powerful than content.

The words you say, the things you do, the techniques, the body language, the muscles, the style, this is all content.

These are good but when you come from a context of being in the Out-Group they help you so much less than when you are in the In-Group.

You can take 2 guys, one with amazing game, stylish as fuck, tall and jacked like Chris Evans, and is so good with words that he can persuade a fish to live in a desert then you have the other guy, kind of awkward, doesn't really dress well, short and skinny-fat, and isn't really a good talker.

But the first guy is from out of town and nobody knows him, the second guy owns the biggest night club in the city and guy number 1 is trying to get his girls while inside his club.

Who do you think is more likely to get their pick of the girls and who is more likely to leave with the unwanted scraps?

9 times out of 10 it will be guy number 2 who gets more success because of the fact that he is part of the In-Group, not only that, he practically owns the group.

He's no outsider, he's the boss.

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This however is something to build towards over a few years.

What if you want to be taking advantage of the In-Group Bias and being The Authority to get you more girls right now??

You can create this situation for yourself very quickly as long as you learn to keep your eye on the bigger picture and not have a scarcity mindset.

In this situation, you have a scarcity mindset when, get this, you try to sleep with every single girl you're attracted to.

Yes, if you want to create a situation for yourself to get laid 10x more than you are now, you need to start by not trying to fuck girls you're attracted to.

What you do instead is befriend them.

*gasp!* Did he just tell me to befriend hot girls...on purpose??!!

You bet your ass I did.

I'm gonna show you the big picture now.

First, guess what, hot girls have hot friends!

When you become friends with the first hot girl you can get access to her entire network of hot friends!

So what if you don't fuck the first girl if down the line you get to fuck 10 of her friends?? Do you have too much of an ego to let go of that one girl??

So this is what you do to guarantee that you get laid more than the best pure cold approach/online dating pickup artist...

You go meet girls you're attracted to, you befriend all of them, you become such a good friend to all of them that they start introducing you to their friends and getting you in to their social circles and then when you have been accepted by all these people you...

Set up your own event or gathering and bring all these new people you've met into it.

Guess what, you're the authority now.

You didn't even need to acquire a certification.

You didn't even need to start a business.

And are you in the In-Group?

Fuck yeah you are! You created the fucking group!

From there any game you have will feel like it has a nitro boost behind it.

Enjoy!

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This part is for everyone reading this comment

A lot of you have sent me direct messages asking for my advice because you read a comment I made on this sub, just like this one, and found it to be very helpful/insightful/meaningful and I'm happy to say I've been able to help you guys so much more because of that.

Here's the problem: More and more messages are coming in and I really want to help but its getting hard to keep up.

So I've decided to put together a Telegram group for you guys that want to improve your dating lives and want to actually understand the psychology behind our interactions with not only women but with ourselves and people in general.

If you want to be part of a group that believes in finesse over brute force, technique over strength, smart work over hard work, Seductionover pursuit then send me a direct message with your Telegram username.

As long as you're serious about getting better with women I'll be more than happy to welcome you in.

rachaholic74 · 2019-03-27T11:02:52+00:00

I'm a retired professional guitarist and songwriter. Even not being active in the field anymore, and being 45 years old, it's like a magic key. All I have to do is call up a YouTube video of myself performing with someone she has heard of, and it's on. I don't even have to try.

Title	Setting up Situations which get you Laid
Author	Max7404
Upvotes	9
Comments	11
Date	March 26, 2019 5:57 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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