Help - Tried Everything Still Can't Get a Girlfriend

canarywocoalmine · 2019-04-17T01:13:57+00:00

1st, stop trying to get a girlfriend. Most men dont go looking for a girlfriend. Try to meet women, get laid and filter out the ones that dont fit. Eventually they are going to try to nail you down. This is just the way it works.

WIA20XX · 2019-04-17T02:24:47+00:00

The fact that you want to be in a relationship is generally not attractive.

Not because monogamy is bad, but neediness is bad. You should really ask yourself why you want to be in a relationship. That self analysis often reveals the flaws in your behavior.

james-robertson · 2019-04-17T00:46:26+00:00

In marketing there's a concept of a "pipeline" that I think would be helpful to you.

Basically you reach out to 1000 customers, get 100 enquiries, 10 turn into face to face sales meetings, you make 1 sale. Each one of those steps can be analysed and improved independently.

So where is the problem with your girlfriend pipeline?

Are you meeting enough girls?

Are enough of them attracted to you (flirting, smiling, interested in interacting, touching)?

Are you escalating with the girls (ask them on date, kiss, sex)?

Are you asking them to be your girlfriend?

So where's the problem?

getyourlifeplease · 2019-04-17T01:43:13+00:00

I have tried everything but can't get a girlfriend

So...if you are chasing the whole "need a girlfriend" notion when meeting girls, that will come through in your approach, follow up, and aura. Women can smell that kind of thirsty behavior a mile away (unless they have low self esteem and are just as thirsty). Stop putting tbe focus on finding a gf and just DATE or hookup! Then weed em out from there

Pokemastra · 2019-04-17T18:12:13+00:00

What’s your approach rate and what are your sticking points?

Title	Help - Tried Everything Still Can't Get a Girlfriend
Author	Max7404
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	April 17, 2019 12:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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