Sex at hers, any advice?

cathasyourtongue · 2016-07-22T21:01:40+00:00

"You like that you fucking retard?!"

putsomecolourson · 2016-07-22T16:28:49+00:00

Straight to anal to make her feel more comfortable.

coldblade2000 · 2016-07-22T16:07:59+00:00

For a first impression, you should prioritise lasting longer and assuring pleasure for her instead of only for you.

IAmDude · 2016-07-22T16:21:36+00:00

Don't masturbate brother. Let your horniness build up and then give it to her as a gift. She'll love it.

And general tips:
. Focus first on getting both of yall comfortable before you start going for an orgasm.
. Eat her out. Then teach her how to pleasure your cock. (Assuming she's new to that too)
. Lead the interaction. She's going to be way more nervous than you. So just follow your gut, do what you think is right, and then always be receptive to how she's taking it.
. Virgins are notoriously quiet and scared of your disapproval. So encourage her to speak up and to experiment with you. Be extremely non-judgmental and open for anything she wants to try.

You'll have fun man! If you're not sure what to do, just start touching her and let your horniness take over.

Kevin_the_Bold · 2016-07-22T16:36:48+00:00

A better sub to post this to would be r/sex, lots of good advice there for this kind of situation

graduallywinning · 2016-07-22T16:20:42+00:00

jefffffffff · 2016-07-22T16:24:16+00:00

The sex is going to be shitty man. She's a virgin. Go slow. Warm her up. Eat her out for 5-10min before hand. slowly slide it in. Bring some lube incase you need it. If you typically cum fast maybe jerkoff 4-6 hours before hand. Don't jerk off for 2-3 days before that. Goodluck.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-07-22T17:17:12+00:00

Take it slow. Make it with her for a while to turn her on. Caress her body. Rub her vulva and and try to stick a finger inside her. Make sure she's very wet.

Use a condom.

Go slow.

Don't freak out if you cum right away. Take a break then get another condom.

SublimeScholar · 2016-07-22T20:26:01+00:00

As another user said, /r/sex would be a better place for this, but Seddit can still help.

From your post, it sounds like the girl is a virgin but you're not. If so, you should be fine because you have sexual experience. Think about the girl- as she'll have no idea of what to do. If you don't spend a lot of time with foreplay, start before she is wet/lubricated, and go too hard/fast, then she'll be in a lot of pain.

If she's having a terrible time, you're not going to enjoy the sex as much.

As far as how long you last and all that, it shouldn't affect how long you last unless you psych yourself out. If anything, there is less pressure on you to perform as she doesn't have any expectations/experience.

HolDador4ever · 2016-07-23T06:41:59+00:00

Buddy, one piece of advice:

-Lots of foreplay to make sure her body, her vagina heats up like an oven. Explore every inch of her body (especially her thighs), that way she won't even have time to be nervous. You'll know that you've done a great job if she invites you in/almost begs you to get inside of her -Her clitoris is your best friend. Play with it too. -Do masturbate a couple of hours beforehand, that way you'll last longer. It usually takes longer to cum after you've cummed once or twice. You can also use condoms that help last longer. Durex has a specific kind. Cant remember the exact name tho.

Good luck and have fun!

lualesca · 2016-07-22T16:59:52+00:00

If it is her first time, i would plan something ahead, get some candles, maybe get a mini speaker for your cellphone to play some soft music, there are some playlist for sexy time on youtube, maybe, just maybe get some white and red balloons with helium to put around her place, try to create a romantic enviroment, get a bottle of red wine, or maybe get some liquor chocolates, chocolates that have liquor inside of them.

It's her first time so i would say lots of foreplay will help her relax and get ready, don't rush yourself and let her take the pace of the thrusting, always comepliment her on how beautiful she is. Remember this is a one in a lifetime experience, so make sure is something she will remember in a good way, make this a beautiful memorie for her.

Best of luck.

Title	Sex at hers, any advice?
Author	DishonoredPie
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	July 22, 2016 3:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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