I have been talking/'attempting to seduce' a girl for about three weeks now. Yeah, that's not a lot of time, but we have been seeing a lot of each other. I'm getting mixed responses from her on things, I can't tell if she 'wants' me, or just wants me in the friend/fuck buddy zone.

Week 1: Met on MySpace, went out a few times. She says she isn't 'looking' for a relationship and wants to get her life together, but she says if it happens then it happens. Sex happens on date #3 (she had been drinking). She said she wouldn't have fucked me if she hadn't been drinking, but then later said she didn't mean that. She says she avoids relationships in order to protect herself from getting hurt.

Week 2: I made a lot of mistakes misinterpreting her and gave too much away about me 'liking' her. She distanced herself from me and said we were seeing each other too much, but would still constantly make an effort to see me. We had sex for the second time at my house party, she had also been drinking. She again said that she only slept with me because her inhibitions were down from alcohol. We agreed to 'just remain friends'. She reminds me that she is afraid to get hurt in a relationship so she 'puts up a shield'.

Week 3: Three weeks pass, and we had yet to have sex while she was completely sober. In fact, she doesn't reciprocate much kino at all. We still go out places together. However, a few nights ago we ended up drinking again and she fucked me like a BEAST all night long. In the morning, when we woke up, she said she didn't remember ANY of it. She then said, "How about you show me what it was like". We then had sex for the first time while she was sober, for hours.

A few days have passed, and she barely flirts at all. She talks to me every day though, and never avoids contact. She doesn't show virtually any 'romantic' emotions, but she does respond to kissing/hugs if im the one to initiate. She doesn't act or look at me in a way that would indicate that she 'wants' me except when she's had some drinks. Overall, we've had sex four times in the last 3 weeks.

What should I do to escalate this to a relationship? What does she feel about me? I am 100% sure I am the only guy she is seeing. When she's drunk, she acts like she is absolutely in love with me. The stuff she says is off the wall like she is some sort of hopeless romantic. When she's sober, she seems emotionless, strong, and firm.