Okay so I started talking to this girl from OkCupid a week ago. I am 27, she is 24. She is a 7 or 8, very attractive woman and pretty far out of my league in appearance. After going from instant messaging, to phone, to webcam, we agreed to go on a date tonight.

She lives about an hour away and I told her to drive out my way for a night out to pool and then a hookah lounge. She agreed to drive out and we went straight to the pool hall.

The initial kino was great and she responded to everything, and sometimes escalated it herself. We were both having some drinks (I paid for drinks here, she agreed to pay for everything at the lounge). We were touching more than playing pool, flirting, and all up in each other's space. Playing with her hair, kissing her neck, arm around her waist, arm-in-arm, leaning against each other, etc. There were no opportunities or openings for a kiss, but we were hitting it off so well that I wasn't very worried about it. After a few hours, we grabbed a quick bite to eat and then headed over to the lounge...

This is when things started to go RAPIDLY downhill. She stopped drinking and her buzz declined and she suddenly started to become very closed and guarded. I don't think I had said anything wrong, rude, or inappropriate. We were smoking the hookah and socializing, but her arms were folded while she was talking. She stared straight ahead a lot while talking and did not return ANY of the kino. I joked around with her about her posture / guardedness and asked why she's so nervous all of a sudden. At one point, I asked if she had ever 'shotgunned' a hookah. (You kiss and blow smoke into the other person's mouth). She said no she hadnt. Even though there wasn't any IOI at this point, I just went for it and she -barely- reciprocated. She barely opened her mouth and we barely touched lips, it was just awkward. After enough of this, I decided to just roll out and take us back home to see if I could escalate at home. She paid the bill there with no qualms.

Once home, things went from bad to worse. Her stance was the same, and she started talking 'trash'. She more or less told me that she was too good for me and that I wasn't going to 'get any'. I raised the 'trash talking' bar each time, and asking her why she thought I even wanted her and that she is boring and 'closed'. She started making more personal attacks like, "Your hair is thinning", "Your teeth are crooked", etc. I responded in a non-caring way and shrugged off everything. Eventually she was like, "You have 9 minutes left before you need to take me to my car." I said, "Fuck it, lets just leave now".

At this point, I didn't care much for her demeanor or 'games' or whatever they were. I dropped her off at the car. She leaned over for a hug and said she had a good night, I aimed for the kiss but she turned her head and said, "Never". I told her bye, and then she says, "fuck you".

We go our seperate ways.

5 minutes later she calls me and starts talking dirty and openly about everything she wants sexually. She says she wants to see me again and know more about me. She tells me all her 'secrets' and basically goes on and on about how she 'knows the type of guy I am' and that 'shes not a slut'. We talk for 3 hours on the phone until the early AM. She says, "I want to know you better before I let you into my golden temple". Haha. What now?