Should I even try since I can't get it?

_GameOn_ · 2012-08-29T23:41:45+00:00

Why would they not be cool with it? You're 21 year old guy, surely it's what they must eventually expect of a 21 year old guy? Talk to them and find out.

Yes, it is absolutely worth cutting out masterbation. Each time you fap, you are short-circuiting out your body's desire for sexual gratification. It's wanting girls enough that will make you go out and get them.

Jaricho · 2012-08-30T01:16:56+00:00

Seriously? her place? its the best way anyway, its her comfortzone. and besides that you can do it on the beach, in the park, in an alley, in a guestroom. just be creative, *(however not everyone is into it) but ANYTHING is better then just giving up.

2012-08-30T03:28:23+00:00

You need to drastically shift your frame here.

There are so many other options, and I understand that you want to be prepared, but in this case I would cross that bridge when you come to it.

Living with your parents is not an issue. In this context, it is frustrating because it limits your ability to bounce a chick back to your place.

That said, just practice on getting to the f-close. If you get there and you both NEED it to happen, then I'm positive that you will find a way.

asnof · 2012-08-30T02:40:07+00:00

Yes, cut it out. Who is to say she doesnt have a place you 2 can go?

Notmyrulname_ · 2012-08-30T03:20:05+00:00

as /u/Jaricho said, go to her place! There are a number of places that'll suffice in the heat of the moment. It's SFW, don't worry.

Also, you're already ceding the fact that you could get 'to home base' anyways.

Try to get that far and see what happens, don't give up before you even try. Go out there and get some women.

Wouldn't the knowledge that you could've gotten laid and had to simply give her a kiss goodnight be better than keeping yourself out of the game because you already gave up?

If it's really a concern then find another job so you have more cash...You'll find a way, don't you worry.

thewtfzone · 2012-08-30T13:39:21+00:00

I bet your parent's would be more open to the idea of you bringing a girl home if you had a job.

mariodood · 2012-08-30T17:24:53+00:00

Dude, if you're wondering about whether you should START pickup because you don't have the logistics for sex...don't worry about it. Work on your skills with women. You can still learn about yourself, gain social skills, meet girls, hook up, etc... it'll take a while before you're in a position to get laid. And when it comes, there's a good chance you'll find a way to do it.

I say fuck NoFap, especially since you aren't approaching yet. Go ahead and fap.

Title	Should I even try since I can't get it?
Author	whytry22
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	August 29, 2012 11:18 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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