Met this Girl (28 - i’m 37) a few month ago during the peak of the pandemic in austria. It was a problem, because there was no vaccacine and we wanted to care about our beloved ones. So, we talk on the phone a lot. But we rarely meet each other at this time.

A few weeks ago, it was our 5th date. I was groom at a wedding on a Sunday and she worked there. In her free time, we met. And after she finished her work, she came to me and we laughed, we kissed a lot, we made out a bit and we danced. We talked about many things and flirt. And she talked to our friends (she knew the bride from boarding school) and it was like we are together.

It was a great Night, before she told me that i should call her on the next day. I had a car accident the day before the wedding, and she was worried about me. Because I had too much booze, but need to drive to the mechanic the next day. And she told me, that she cant drive me around, because she need to work. She worried a lot about me. Which was always a good sign, if a girl is into me.

So, i called her on Monday at 9pm and she didnt answer my call. No message from her why. Next morning, i made a voice note and told her, that we can talk in the evening. No reply.

Fast forward. I invited her to my place a few day later that note. I knew she had stress in her jobs and her study stuff. I wasnt cringy and texted her 10 times a day. Just two texts in this week. After that message, she texted me that she work 60 hours a week in 3 jobs, have less free time and need time for herself and that we can met somewhere in the future, when she only have one job. It was hard for me to read that. Didn‘t expect anything like that after so much passion at the wedding.

So, i didnt answer her last text cause it felt like she did‘nt want contact anymore.