Social skills knowledge gap

KoleSekor · 2024-10-26T19:29:29+00:00

You essentially want to get people talking 80% of the time. Have them talk about their passions, their dreams, their career, the people in their life, and past childhood experiences...

So you have to ask the questions and then actually listen. Remain curious about them. The best listening technique to use is called the echo technique. Essentially repeat the words/phrases they use that seem to have meaning to them (based on a tone change, they adjust their body language, etc) as a question. It looks like this.. I've always liked to travel to the beach. Then you say "The beach?"

norwegiandoggo · 2024-10-26T19:14:25+00:00

Practice more. Do social stuff you're uncomfortable with. Go outside your comfort zone. Push yourself to be as social as possible. Try to become a more talkative person

Dandys3107 · 2024-10-27T10:46:41+00:00

Start from the beginning, come closer to people, get eye contact, smile, have some brief small talk. You can also attend parties or watch good talk shows to fish for ideas, practice your voice by the mirror. Even if you think you are introverted, you should still be able take the lead if necessary. But it will not happen on its own, you need to practice.

Practical-Macaroon38 · 2024-10-26T21:52:56+00:00

Get out of your comfort zone by starting small.

If you’re at a party or social event then talk to the nearest person next to you. If you easily get intimidated by some people then start with the least intimidating person & build from there.

You’ll find that it gets easier the more you do it. Also, talk to literally anyone. Talk to random men, talk to older women, ask random people questions, compliment random people, just do anything that gets you engaging with others.

Eventually you’ll see that this starts to translate well over to how you approach attractive women.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-10-27T03:54:45+00:00

Read books on how to talk to people and go out and practice what you've learned.

Title	Social skills knowledge gap
Author	Traditional-Act448
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	October 26, 2024 7:09 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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