How can a journey with an objective to fuck "hot" girls (or for the matter of semantics "girls your are attracted to") not make you needy when approaching girls?

This came to mind listening to Owen Cook speak about banging the hottest women he's ever met in his life. I love everything he said about the journey to that, but noticed the fallacy I mention in the first paragraph. "His" journey is not getting the girls for himself, it's getting the girls to be able to teach how to get the girls. And in that journey, he comes up with these amazing values, which I truly appreciate (and it's remarkable how he can elaborate and digest them for us.) But, I think it can be misleading to state that the journey is "fucking as many girls you are attracted to and being more successful with it as time goes on."

Unless your journey is to *spread your seed as much as you can, you aren't truly hitting on separating the neediness from the journey. Modern society has a number of restrictions on how to best spread your seed -- monogamy's only reason for being an effective strategy isn't that it allows for the economy to move forward, it has social ones, as well.

People will never make the correct choice for a journey unless they understand that *this is basically what they are doing when they want to sleep with a girl, they want to ULTIMATELY find the mother of their children. Maybe this is just validation for my personal struggle in my head, but if I don't state it, it just feels like I'm standing idle while a bunch of genuine needy people are turning into psychopaths.

EDIT: by "needy" I mean the need to validate one's self with sex. The girl in "this" sense is not important, only your perception of the way society will look at you is. Some people are above this obviously, I'm not trying to generalize. However, I think a lot of people who negate this situation are stuck in a trap.