Someone should make a program/guide on how to raise your kids so they would grow up without needing to visit /r/seduction.

leevs11 · 2010-02-26T14:03:27+00:00

Lead by example. It's not about picking up women, it's about being a man. Be a man. Let them see this. They will be naturals.

rmbarnes · 2010-02-26T12:44:55+00:00

People always think that people who feel the need to study game are missing some kind of social skill that most men are born with / develop young.

The truth is that only a minority of men (10%, maybe 20% at the most) naturally develop the skills needed to consistently attract women. This hasn't been a problem in the past (say 40/50+ years ago) due to social pressure to marry fairly young and to stay married to the same person for the rest of your life.

Now this pressure to marry is gradually fading from society men are having to compete in a sexual market place influenced by unrestrained female hypergamy. Most men can't compete that well.

ngroot · 2010-02-26T09:29:44+00:00

Everybody needs to figure out these things on his own.

2010-02-26T13:27:34+00:00

I don't have kids yet, but I know that one day I want 'em. I've already been strategizing how I'm gonna raise 'em. Have you ever read Dune?

2010-02-26T21:46:54+00:00

The only person I can think of who's children have all grown up to be natural players is my uncle. But his example can't be followed by anyone else here. In my country, you're allowed to have multiple wives so we grew up seeing my uncle flirt, tease, and manipulate his way through girls all with the smiling approval of the community. He has seven male children who are all sickeningly seductive.

2010-02-27T00:00:50+00:00

Don't send them to public school, that one is huge. Don't take them to any church that views sex of any kind as sinful. And spend a lot time with your son's especially after the age of 12.

Gontoran · 2010-02-27T05:23:29+00:00

I have often thought of what kind of newby mission a kid under me as mentor would have. How much it'll shape his social life, and how self-aware he will be of game.

If there is one thing that is really important in being good at pickup, it is the willingness to learn. If you didnt have this and you are a pua, then you started out a natural. However most puas got good, through perseverance and lots of learning.

If you teach you kid that it is ok to be bad at something as long can improve and learn from their mistakes, then he will surely succeed at learning pickup. Otherwise, I would say there is no way to gurantee that your kid is not going to need to go through learning pickup without being a helicopter parent and conditioning some kind of teenage social robot.

erotic_sausage · 2010-02-26T14:03:59+00:00

what was the ballpark figure again? 20% of guys are fucking 80% of the women

I'm making sure i'm a part of that 20% for a while before I decide to multiply and then make sure my son will grow up to be a part of that 20% and be generally awesome and not a total dick

diggcalledtheymissu · 2010-03-03T04:31:01+00:00

Why? What is wrong with visiting /r/seduction?

Dumping and getting dumped is part of the teen age growing-up process... if my son takes it hard I'm considering lending him some bradp material. That's years in the future, so maybe I'll have a new fav by then

gozarthegozarian · 2010-02-27T19:15:49+00:00

Here's a guide for your son so he doesn't need to visit r/seduction:

Don't let him play with dolls
Don't let him play Dungeons and Dragons
Make him play sports
Make him be physically fit at all ages
Keep him away from computer programming
Keep him away from collecting and studying insects
Don't let him post at reddit

Title	Someone should make a program/guide on how to raise your kids so they would grow up without needing to visit /r/seduction.
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Date	February 26, 2010 7:26 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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