Hi, I have been gaining experience with women for the past two years, having gone the first 23 years oblivious.

Making good improvements in a lot of areas and bagging decent experience.

One area that has started to resonate with me is state control, it is something I am naturally horrible at. I have a started logging and making notes about my interactions over the past 4 months. Sometimes things go great, sometimes awfully. I have noticed that my state at the time was a key determinate.

There are times where I am neurotic and want to be alone. Times when I'm sad. Times when I'm happy, confident and give no fucks.

So what I'm wondering is how do you flip that state into that happy give no fucks hero? Any special routines?