Staying in state during the work week?

TofuTofu · 2011-08-09T17:44:38+00:00

Hit the happy hour bars ;)

SkyDrivingFool · 2011-08-09T18:31:01+00:00

I agree that a Humdrum job can make you feel like crap by the end of the week unless you can get out and recharge midweek. Overall getting out and being Social outside of the workplace, not necessarily always PUA.

I too feel that way come Monday and I feel great, by Wednesday I'm "meh", and Friday, time slows to a crawl lol.

I find getting to the Gym, having some friends to meet up with, or heck just going for a fun drive out and away from the PM Commute can help a good bit.

fragglemook · 2011-08-10T02:09:22+00:00

Cycle to work every day. Really fast. Beat your time from yesterday. Turn up, do the best job you can. For YOU. Not your boss. Let them give you shit for fucking up. No big deal. Like you're working out at the gym, it's boring shit but the game is in pushing yourself to do more with less. Breathe. Get oxygen to your brain and do more work than anyone else. Get to know the work of your superiors and help them out when you can. If you finish your assignment for the day, start cleaning your surroundings. Be dependable, flexible and never make excuses.

If you're just too comfortable in your job, you're going to stagnate and fly face first into beta behaviour.

Pickup at work is easy because you get a long time to establish c-phase stuff and you get more than one chance to trigger attraction. But if you are just waiting around not doing any work and listening to the depressing shit from your workmates, it's your responsibility to impart a fun vibe. The challenge is in keeping your weekend buzz stable within you and projecting it on others. Otherwise, what you are saying is that their dull vibes are stronger than your great feelings.

Richard Bandler has an easy read book called Get the Life You Want about spinning and maintaining good feelings. Perhaps you could use it.

You will always be surrounded by people who are low energy unless you either remove yourself from their vicinity or pump some positive vibes into them by feeling good first.

FYI I am working on leaving this job but need to stay a year to finish up my project, out of respect to my boss who has been nothing but gracious to me.

Either you want to work there or not. I just explained how to make yourself enjoy the work you do, which in turn makes you attractive by way of you making positive choices in what to do. But if it is you who has their dreams crushed and you are just projecting, then perhaps you haven't quite thought about what it is that really fires YOU up in life. You could start there.

ass_fungus · 2011-08-09T18:04:09+00:00

Why do you need to view life through the PUA/Seduction lens 24/7?

2011-08-10T23:50:59+00:00

Go out during the week every now and then. With friends is good, with a girl you #-closed even better. It's fun!

Title	Staying in state during the work week?
Author	ass_fungus
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	August 9, 2011 5:39 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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