this post is dedicated to all the chodes out there that are spam approaching left and right at the bar, club, street, day, whatever.

NEWSFLASH: approaching random girls in the bar or club is not what causes you to fuck girls consistently. does it work? sure, i'm living proof of that, and so are many others. but the key here is that it's not CONSISTENT. and it never will be. contrary to popular belief, instructors such as RSD and the like don't give you the full details in terms of their results. it's due to marketing purposes. if they told you the approach to fuck ratio for cold approach in a bar or club is 1 to 100 then they would be out of business fast. with that being said, take ALL pick up information you get from coaching, online, and others, with a grain of salt. shit, take what i'm saying right now with a grain of salt. this is why it's so vital to go out, take action yourself, open your eyes to the fucking light, and make some adjustments here and there

one thing you have to understand about pick up and fucking girls consistently is that it's BRUTAL. you don't get results by simply following the most common formula known to man and is plastered on every dating advice forum: go out and spam approach girls or go on a dating app and message girls. that's a recipe for a shit ton of rejection, high exertion of effort, and a very lack of results.

i sort of knew this from the beginning but after this past weekend it really opened my eyes as to what the fuck is actually going on here. for those that missed my last post, this past saturday i went out and opened something like 20 to 30 fucking sets in 2 hours. it was fucking nuts, probably the most volume of sets i've done in my life in such a short period, holy fuck. but after doing those sets i've refined something that i knew: approaching girls at bars, clubs, etc, is a MIXED bag. that's why this shit will not be consistent. you cannot expect consistent results when the circumstances are random. and they are random. each girl you approach on the street or at the bar is out for a different purpose and is in a different emotional, social, mental space at that point in time. there's absolutely no filter, it's just a huge net encompassing all girls. that's not what we want. we don't want to approach all girls, we want to approach dtf girls, girls that are receptive to meeting a guy that night and going home with him to fuck.

so how do we find these dtf girls? well that is an important question and no one is going to outright tell you that. which is why you need to do some critical thinking and testing to determine where you're going to be going to approach girls. i'll give an example: college girls like to experiment and fuck. they're younger and probably have had very few sexual experiences, so they may be more receptive to hooking up with a guy for one night. with this information in mind, where should you go to find receptive girls that are down to fuck? ding ding ding, correct, college parties. this is just one example.

don't be a chode to the current circumstances of dating. don't run around approaching indiscriminately in bars and clubs and hoping to find a dtf girl. you need to filter out all the bullshit and all the noise and THEN start running around and approaching. that's when you'll start to see a noticeable increase in results. me personally i have a few ideas cooking in my head/PUA lab on where i'll be going to pick up girls in the next coming weeks. all kinds of locations and situations that i will be testing in the coming friday and saturday nights. the key is to think outside the box and go to the most uncommon as fuck places to meet women. places that absolutely 0 guys will go to. when you're in an area where there's 0 guys and a shit ton of hot girls, you're immediately doing something right. just know that. at the moment the bars, clubs, and streets are too untargeted and there's too much competition, you need to eliminate the competition and be the only option there. that alone will allow girls to be more receptive to your approach because they haven't been spam approached by chodey guys all night.

the keys to consistent vagina don't come easy. you either need an auto pass with good looks, some luck/good connections from social circle, or a heavy brain on your shoulders and the ability to execute efficiently, understand patterns and then make adjustments.